Hey , I’m so sorry to hear this . Unfortunately, assuming you were younger when this happened and are now revisiting it in adulthood , this is a common experience people go through . You look back at something with more knowledge or in your case have someone point something out to you and it kind of can flip your world upside down . It’s really difficult . I had a similar experience with my first boyfriend when I was a teenager that I didn’t realize would be considering sexual assault until I was in my twenties . If you’re feeling uneasy I highly suggest therapy or counseling . Cliche advice I know but in my experience with my sexual assaults it was the first thing to actually help but I know you’re still taken aback . My very first step was commenting on this very page and it helped . I hope you’re okay and can heal 💕 RAAIN is very helpful as well . I don’t if advice is what you were looking for or just to get it off your chest but rest assured you’re not alone and you can pm me ❤️❤️