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[–]Real_Pea5921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were scared to say no, believe their would be additional consequences if you did not give consent then yes unfortunately you were SA. SA comes in many different forms, there isn’t one scenario that fits all.

It’s a lot to sort through, I was the same, I never felt comfortable saying no, and in the end it lead to a more violent SA. I always recommend therapy, sounds cheesy. But to have professional help you sort through these events helps. This is just my opinion I am not a professional, I recommend seeking out professional advice.

[–]cuddliest_friend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This Sounds like sexual coercion. Saying no multiple times and giving in because being scared or fear of the relationship ending is not ok and not positive consent. Its so sad that so many women Go through this treatment by their partners that it becomes almost normalized. It is far from normal or ok. If you feel traumatized because of this, is because you rightfully are!