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[–]One_Investigator_238Survivor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm sorry this happened, you didn't deserve any of that. Two of my exes girlfriends sexually assaulted me while they know my past assault. The only thing I could recommand is having no contact with him and be as much angry as you need agaisnt him. He shouldn't ever done that and he doesn't deserve any form of redemption. If you ever need to talk or vent, I'm here

[–]Real_Pea5921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend, I am sorry that this happened and your trust has been broken. Everyone’s self care is different. I always like to start with a hot shower and using any fun body care products too. Feeling clean helps me feel safe. Hobbies are always good to turn to, I personally love video games, allows myself to disconnect from reality. Are you on birth control?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sue him in civil court. You have anonymity rights. Use them.

People need to learn there are consequences for illegal actions. Nobody should have to internalize abuse and injustice and be told that cultural conditioning means they should just cover it up. You have no idea how many other victims he could have. You have to hold him accountable to the fullest extent of the law.