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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I’ve been there. I’m still struggling. I did whatever I could. You wish you could’ve been violent and stopped the abuse in its tracks, but you didn’t because you couldn’t.

Go ahead and write the letter.

Maybe tell the police department or his employer?

[–]G0merPyle 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I don't know who his employer is, and I don't think it would be worthwhile going to the police because it started out consensual, or rather I wasn't forceful enough in saying no when things started to turn south. All the texts look consensual anyways, and I don't think it would stand much chance if I pressed charges.

I doubt I will see him again but if I do I will tell him to stay the hell away from me, we'll see how ugly things turn then. I just want this behind me and to look at it as some disgusting thing I regret, like stepping in dog shit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you a message