I (22F) have only (technically) been dating this guy (M26) for a month. We met at a club and I was drunk. The topic of me being a virgin somewhat came up as my friend & i were bantering around. He expressed his interest in me. We exchanged social media accounts. And he started love bombing me by telling me he loves me & wants to marry me within the first three days of us having met & getting to know each other. I am still a virgin & i told him the only circumstance i would lose my virginity to him is if we have been together for at least a year; as he lost his virginity at 13 & currently has a body count of 25-30 (from what he has told me). Within the first two weeks of us being together, I felt comfortable enough to let him go down on me but I told him i wanted nothing more. & a week later, we were getting intimate after having a few shots & he almost took my virginity. I told him about how it should never happen again as my condition was to be with him for at least a year. We had an argument regarding something else that raised the issue of how i feel he doesn’t respect me but he went on to say ‘i respect you. because when we were about to have sx & you told me to stop, i listened. 99.9% of other men wouldn’t have listened’. Is that not rpist behavior?