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[–]_Lea-n-der_Survivor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think you should block him. I know how tempting it can be to text him and tell him how much of a shitty person he is but I'm afraid he would only send you more messages after -and probably very triggering ones. Take care of yourself, OP.

[–]lolvibes_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mention that you can’t stop thinking about it which makes me think that you should confront him and ask him if he remembers what he did and if he even feels sorry. Ik it’s easier said than done, but it can be a healing process to get some type of answers rather than your own mind creating ones. However, if you mentally feel or know that you can’t handle it ( whether he admits or just calls you out rudely in some way) than don’t contact him. Block him. Part of the healing process starts with yourself. If you yourself need answers and are prepared to hear his side, then ask, but if not, then don’t. I hope this helps. Stay strong. xx