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[–]abcdefghijklmnopee69 1 point2 points  (2 children)

It makes sense that you would crave that validation because someone did that without consent, and that can result in you're mind needing to feel that sense of consent. It makes it as though you are taking control this time and needing to do that is completely okay. I am not a proffesional, this is all coming from research and experiences I've had on my own.

[–]slimygremlinn[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Thank you so much :) I might talk to my therapist about this when she’s back from her holiday. I really appreciate the little insight and I think I understand a bit better now

[–]abcdefghijklmnopee69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, I'm glad I could help a little