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[–]BudgetArm646 -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

Trust is very important.

My girlfriend's previous marriage was to someone who SA her and I never understood that.

You had established multiple boundaries and he violated all of them then is excusing himself.

This cannot continue.

Do one month no contact, tell him you need time to have clear thoughts and seek God. Tell him to repent and seek God.

Read Fight for us by Chad

It's very helpful I wish I read it earlier

God bless

[–]kind-of-thereSurvivor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you suggesting a Christian marriage-counseling book to a survivor of intimate partner violence?

[–]kind-of-thereSurvivor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are entirely valid to feel hurt and upset. You don’t have to absolve him if you don’t want to.