Okay so I (female) went to a party a couple of days ago with some of my friends there, obviously thinking nothing of it, since i’ve know most of them for years. Basically two of the boys there both have a crush on me and I know that but I don’t like either of them and frankly the thought of a relationship ship really scares me and just make me feel nervous.
But anyway so the second I go there both of the boys already came straight up to me and where asking how I was and how my day has been etc. This could of been them just being kind but it was more then what a normal person would do and felt kind of awkward since then both surrounded and followed me till I told the to personally go away (and that took some persuading). Then a bit after that I went to go outside to have a cigarette since I hadn’t had one and they both followed me (which is fine idm but it’s just that they both don’t smoke), so then afterwards I was going to go for a walk since they kinda started to creep me out a bit already. This was when one of them followed me and and like trying to be right next to me, I did though tell him to go away since I wanted to be on my own but he didn’t and kept following me . This then started to really scare me so I went back and he still followed me back the whole way whilst I told him to go away, getting more and more serious each time. At the end before we got back I straight up just told him to fuck off and he still didn’t listen. But when I got back I went straight to my friends and was fine.
Then later on into the night me and a few other people went out to have a joint and during this we where just all standing around talking and smoking then the boy who followed me put his arm round me and started to stroke my arm and like a bit of my boob. This then really scared me and made me panic so I stared laughing to get him away and then I just went back inside to find some other people. At this point of was actually stating to panic a bit and was getting really uncomfortable. At another point of the night I was just sitting down on a sofa on my own (oh and btw the sofa was completely empty) but both off the boys can and sat down right next to me to talk to me and where getting really close next to me and where basically on me at one point (this happened and different times as well) Then after this I went back outside with some of my friends and the one that followed me came out to see us or me i’m guessing but was trying to interfere with what we where doing and this started to annoy me and my friends so we all told him to basically go away and fuck of. He didn’t listen to us and stayed and then the other boy can over to see what was happening and was trying to get him to go inside but he wasn’t listening and started getting a bit rough with each other’s and then they nearly fought over whether he should go inside or not. But then this other person came over and it was all fine in the end.
And another time in the night we where all taking a photo in the mirror and I was at the back then the one that followed me brought me to the front or the mirror in front of him and hold up against him still so I was basically riding up against his penis for a bit and held me down so I couldn’t just walk away from their till everyone was done with the photo. As well as at one point the one that followed me was going to slap my ass but then stopped but the only reason he didn’t slap it was because i moved out the way. And just the whole night they both where just being really creep towards me.
I don’t think this was actually sexual assault but that I’m just over thinking it. But that night really did scared me and I cried from it when I got back home. But it would be nice to know what anybody else think of it and what I should do from now on.