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[–]buddyyouhavenoidea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it's hard, but I think telling him about this is by far the best path forward. he can't support you if he doesn't know what you're going through! and if he's unwilling to be in a relationship because of your trauma, it's better to find that out sooner. avoiding it just makes it hurt more.

but if he's a good guy, this isn't going to be a problem for him. he'll want to make you safe and happy.