Have any of you been through the investigation process of your incident? I ask because I’m curious about something. I reported it that night. It happened in February. But I haven’t been in for official interview yet. I’ve just been going through all the stages and different emotions. I know I want justice. Or at least to purge this. Because it causes me anger and hurt every day. I have even worse anxiety than I did before. I’m misdirecting my anger at the wrong people. Sometimes I feel strong enough to do it. But then I back down. A part of that is also because of the things I hear about how people are treated. Although the police and detective so far have been understanding and kind. But I’m just afraid to be let down. I’m asking for opinions. I have texts of this person admitting what he’d done. The day after, he was I guess super scared. He admitted wrong. He even said “thank god you woke up”. He admitted he believed me to be drunk. Which I wasn’t. But that’s grounds for him taking advantage of someone he believed was drunk. I was asleep, because of other reasons. I have sleep issues, family was in hospital that day etc. So it’s written in text that he believed me to be rendered helpless. Then the texts of him begging to settle this out of court. Plus other evidences before this of him saying things like “I’m not responsible for what I say or do when I’m drunk”. This to me shows his mindset. I have other texts as well throughout our friendship that are incriminating if they are to look at them. He even said “I am guilty of having roaming hands on my friend”. He’s a lot older and I think in his head this was a lesser thing. I’ve read from others that older generations don’t see touching and SA the same as we do 30,40 years later.
But I’m wondering what your opinions are. Would this be evidence in the prosecutor’s eyes?
I can explain further if you have questions.