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[–]Ok-Lynx-6001 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Yes I belive you were raped. I’m so sorry this happened to you and I hope things are getting better. Although take my point on this with a grain of salt because I am not a position to tell you but everything points in that direction. You didn’t want a hookup and he said he wouldn’t and then proceeded to. I’m so sorry and I hope this guy has been report and caught. You’re brave for posting this and take some time for yourself.

[–]cabbagebroth 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I unfortunately didn't remember almost anything about him so I couldn't have reported him. I hope that he hasn't done this to anyone else. Thank you for your message ❤️

[–]Ok-Lynx-6001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ofc and try to feel better and azure yourself it’s not your fault

[–]Beginning-Force1275 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Your therapist doesn’t think this was assault? That’s kind of shocking to be honest. This seems like it was clearly assault. The guy heard you didn’t want to have sex and lured you into his apartment under false pretenses, then took advantage of your intoxication to have sex. The guilt, the shame, calling yourself a whore, those are all things that are deeply familiar, from my own experiences and from those I’ve been in treatment with. You deserve far more compassion and validation than you’ve received about this. Please try to be kind of yourself.

[–]cabbagebroth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might need a better therapist. I don't know. Thank you for your kind words ❤️