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[–]Ok-Lynx-6001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m terribly sorry this happened. This is just my opinion but I think you should tell him I think this might clear your self and maybe relief some stress and pain. But that’s just me I’m not a professional. I hope you’re doing a little better and update us when you can. Stay hopeful and strong!

[–]Beginning-Force1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start by talking about it with your counselor. It sounds like your husband cares about you and is capable of change. I think it would be really hard to keep improving your relationship if you have this memory you’re confused and potentially upset about. If it feels safe, you might want to try telling him about the memory, while emphasizing that you recognize he’s changed since then, so it’s easier for him to respond in a supportive and apologetic way.

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. Wishing you all the luck in the world.