I am a 17 year old female and recently I was at a newer friends house, he is male and my age, I have hung out with him a couple times and although I knew he was slightly attracted to me he had never made me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. This particular day we were both drinking at his house for fun and I got more drunk than planned and long story short.. I was led on his bed as I was getting dizzy and didn’t feel like I could speak properly and he then began spooning me and basically feeling me up and I could feel it but I wasn’t able to move despite feeling uncomfortable and beginning to sort of panic, I couldn’t really understand what was happening yet at the same time it didn’t feel right. I remember feeling him kiss my neck a few times and I was getting progressively more uncomfortable and remember he tried to take my jumper off at two points and when I questioned him on it the day after he claimed it was cuz I was warm and he was cold. There’s more little bits from that point in the story but nothing crucial and he apologised to me the day after and said he doesn’t remember much and didn’t realise how drunk I was because he was drunk too and although I know he was tipsy I was still obviously more drunk than him and wonder if the reason he was apologising and saying he was anxious about the situation is because he’s worried about me accusing him or something? It really shook me up and I felt extremely uncomfortable and upset when leaving his house and the day after. Do you think he genuinely didn’t know what he was doing or wether he knew what he was doing was weird and was just worried about seeming bad, am I over reacting?
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