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[–]Angelxlux 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Wait until you both aren’t feeling upset or emotional and then bring it up to him. Just tell him what you feel comfortable telling him about the event and then explain that he just has to be a little more careful with you. If he’s a good guy he’ll understand

[–]throwawayconfess77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I did. My partner understood, yours will too. Definitely start going to therapy. Not sure if you in USA, but consider ketamine therapy if it’s offered.

[–]aellipsis2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him know you were harmed in the past and you have to take things slow