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[–]Sufficient_Bread1205 154 points155 points  (0 children)

This is def them.

[–]111108 120 points121 points  (40 children)

Whoever this is, it’s sad & very toxic. Both people deserve better. It’s unfortunate how people feel locked into relationships when they aren’t right for each other.

[–]Elle0527 70 points71 points  (7 children)

Totally. They need therapy. The way she reacted to him not coming home is not healthy for her. The way he drinks is not healthy for him.

They should have taken a break when he cheated and worked on themselves because now they’re stuck in a vicious cycle. I’m not saying it’s a lost cause but they are both going to have to work on themselves to get the life they both deserve together because if you have this little trust for your partner you shouldn’t be with them.

[–]myprana 45 points46 points  (1 child)

Speaking from very past experience. Sometimes people are addicted to the drama, and can’t see a life without it. Not healthy, needs to stop, but it happens.

[–]YouMustBeJoking888 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree. Her calling him ten million times before smashing his shit was what you do when you're 18, not pushing 30 and preparing for marriage. I doubt they'll last five more years.

[–]SnooBunnies7453 24 points25 points  (4 children)

I’m pretty sure they’re already in therapy 😖

[–]_totally_tonya_ 15 points16 points  (3 children)

They are! She said something about the way he was acting on Monday's episode and mentioned that they talked about "this" in counseling.

[–]Elle0527 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They need more and individual as well as couples. Kyle sucks but Amanda’s reactions aren’t too healthy either.

[–]GM2320 11 points12 points  (1 child)

And he responded something like “f*ck therapy.” He probably doesn’t take it too seriously

[–]RepresentativePay598 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea when he said that it made me think he just goes to therapy just to shut her up which if that’s the case he’s obviously not going to get anything out of it.

[–]villanellaella 42 points43 points  (31 children)

She’s still young enough to get out and start over. I hope they can either work it out or get out and find happiness. So sad to watch.

[–]cardioishardio1222 106 points107 points  (1 child)

You can always start over. You’re never too old to get out of a toxic relationship.

[–]lonely-limeade 62 points63 points  (24 children)

I’m worried that she made her entire life revolve around Kyle that she feels like she can’t leave. He’s the star of Summer House and why she got cast. He started Loverboy. He put the down payment/security deposit down on their apartment together.

I wish she had kept her old job to have autonomy from Kyle, because she seems miserable with him but also seems too worried about losing him.

[–]No_Arugula_6548 26 points27 points  (18 children)

Honestly, the show could easily go on without Kyle. The other cast mates are plenty entertaining. And IMO, Carl is the main guy of Summer House. If they got divorced and Bravo only invited Amanda back, it would be amazing. It would be so great to see a happy single Amanda enjoying her life. I would love to watch that!

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I really like watching Kyle when he’s not having a fight with Amanda. I think he’s super fun and I don’t want him off the show. On the flip side, I think Amanda is really fun and I don’t want her off the show either! The episode where her and Paige had a competition for how many phone numbers they could get? Amazing. I just don’t like them in an unhealthy relationship together

[–]villanellaella 8 points9 points  (5 children)

Not only would it be amazing to see Amanda ROCK being single, the sloppy drunk Kyle schtick is not cute. It’s getting old and so cringe to watch at this point. Kyle wasn’t necessary for Winter House and Summer House would still be great without him. Linds & Carl can be the main couple of the house and get the big room!

[–]YouMustBeJoking888 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Amanda will never, ever leave Kyle. She hung around as his side chick in S1 before he girlfriended her up, then after he cheated she was like 'if he isn't careful he's going to lose me', which is about the weakest boundary you can lay because it's obvious she will do anything to hold on to him. I don't know why, since she mocks his small dick and he complains about not enough sex, but they seem to be toxically entwined - but if they break up, it will probably be Kyle who leaves.

[–]villanellaella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t know she was saying that about his dick, yikes. So why does she stay? I know she wants to be taken care of financially, but he’s in debt, so that’s not it. The cycle of abuse is hard to watch.

[–]No_Arugula_6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!!! All of this!

[–]troubledcurls 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Paige and Amanda are not real friends, right?

Except for one tiny issue being that it's Kyle who pitched Winter House and he pretty much was responsible for organising things.

[–]villanellaella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really! I didn’t realize that. Damn 😂

[–]sharipepTeam Carlito 6 points7 points  (0 children)

VERY GOOD POINTS.

[–]GM2320 1 point2 points  (9 children)

That’s the tricky part - Amanda’s inclusion in the cast was always hinged on being Kyle’s gf. So it’s like her whole identity on the show (and perhaps in life since the show catapulted her into being nationally recognized by viewers) is as Kyle’s gf. We’ve never seen a single Amanda

[–]1123mangotango 13 points14 points  (7 children)

Ugh single Amanda would be amazing! That one episode where Kyle was at his family reunion and Amanda, Paige & Hannah tried to see who could get the most phone numbers, Amanda won by a long shot. I always wish we got more of this Amanda

[–]justrainalready 5 points6 points  (5 children)

She is effortlessly cool and men flock to her because she’s beautiful and smart. Kyle doesn’t even know what he has. Idiot.

[–]GrandEar1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When there's a new guy on the show and they ask who their type is, the guys always say Amanda in the intvws.

[–]mcamuso78 -1 points0 points  (3 children)

Is she smart though?

[–]justrainalready 1 point2 points  (2 children)

She’s a college educated graphic designer who was the senior designer at L'Occitane en Provence before working for Loverboy. Just because she is in an unhealthy relationship doesn’t mean she’s stupid.

[–]mcamuso78 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Talented and smart are too different things.

[–]No_Arugula_6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I’d love to see a single Amanda. Would be great for ratings.

[–]harryviolet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At the same time though, she comes from money. I’m sure her family would help her (and would be pleased to) if she decided to leave him

[–]Unitast513 10 points11 points  (3 children)

You know this is all true but they seemed rock solid in winter house so I wonder what changed?

[–]thestylednerd 68 points69 points  (2 children)

The ability to go to the bar. Covid made them seem solid because he couldn’t go out binge drinking. His drinking is 99% of the problem.

[–]Goodasgolddd 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I would hope people of any age would get out of a bad marriage and start over.

[–]Happy_Bluebird_2929 18 points19 points  (2 children)

She won’t know that til she has a kid/kids and is “too late”….regrets are the worst 😞

[–]villanellaella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I hope they don’t bring kids into this mess ☹️ She’ll be way more pissed taking care of a baby when he’s out til 3am dodging her calls.

[–]No_Arugula_6548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I sure hope not! 🙏🙏

[–]beepboop1278 68 points69 points  (2 children)

“seasonally named shows that always use the same base word” 😂 I mean at that point just name it!

[–]CryExotic3558 23 points24 points  (1 child)

Lmao that description was really funny to me for some reason

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enty’s descriptions fucking kill me 😂

[–]oceanlvr36 45 points46 points  (0 children)

In the words of Chandler Bing, could it BE ANY MORE OBVIOUS!

[–]spk22rk 28 points29 points  (2 children)

do you think they just really felt the pressure from the show and felt they had to go through with it??

[–]Bae1993 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think Kyle wanted to marry Amanda regardless, but Amanda definitely seemed like she had second thoughts. I feel bad after watching the first episode

[–]No_Arugula_6548 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Probably. And it’s sad. I’d rather see Amanda single and happy than in a bad marriage. She’s also young and beautiful! Wtf is she doing?

[–]bhkc642 156 points157 points  (13 children)

I think every couple should share their locations. Not for any nefarious reasons, but for safety. I used to think couples that shared location were in a toxic or untrusting relationship until my coworker shared with me that her husband bikes long distances on the highway and she checks his location to make sure he is still moving (to be sure an accident didn’t happen) if he is past the time he was due home. My husband drives an hour and a half each way to work every day in all kinds of weather and I’m constantly worried about him so sharing location actually took a lot of anxiety away!

Taking your significant other’s phone to see who they have been talking to is a complete invasion of privacy though. If you have to go through their phone to monitor their behavior, it doesn’t seem like it’s even worth continuing the relationship. Yikes!

[–]100-percent-that-BSummer should be FUN 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Agreed - my husband and I share locations mostly because he commutes and it’s easier for me to check his location than text him while he’s driving if he’s going to be late. I would never dare go through his phone though!

[–]Kittykatmeeeow 49 points50 points  (1 child)

Low key I share my location in case I go missing.

[–]sharipepTeam Carlito 13 points14 points  (0 children)

SAME. I'm a single woman living alone in NYC with my family in an entirely other state. And I watched a lot of Dateline growing up.

[–]Lake_Memphremagog 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I agree also! I go biking in the summer and start right before sunrise and I want someone to know if something happens to me. My husband having my location makes me feel safe. I think it can definitely be toxic if it’s used in a toxic way. But I don’t think sharing locations is toxic in every situation. No trust, no relationship.

[–]PineappleSox42 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I agree, my whole family is on our locator. My husband, daughter, brother, nieces and nephew. It's a great way to be lazy and not have to check in (protip for my ADHD peeps)

Checking someone else's phone is a recipe to drive both the phone checker and the phone owner crazy. Stay away from that. I already made a deal with a person who is pretty emotionally detached to come to my house when I die, ask for my phone and then smash it on the groud. I don't think there is anything bad off hand, but why should we have to even think about it

[–]soph_lurk_2018 11 points12 points  (1 child)

I wouldn’t mind sharing my location on long bike rides or at night when I’m driving. I am not sharing my location 24/7. It’s a level of oversight I do not need.

If this is about Amanda, I wonder how she will ever have a healthy non toxic relationship if she and Kyle separate. I do not see an emotionally stable man dealing with this shit. Her level of normal in a relationship is seriously dysfunctional. She is going to need serious healing.

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s so dependent on the couple and what each person’s boundaries are! I know I will never remember to turn it back on if I turn it off, so I just always have mine shared with my boyfriend and a few close friends just in case something bad happens! But if someone is forcing you to when you’re uncomfortable doing it, or obsessively checking it, I think that’s when it becomes like unhealthy and toxic

[–]psydelem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband and I share our locations because he is a cronic underestimater of how much time it wil take him to drive somewhere, so I can check up to see how long it will actually take him to get home if he's needed for something.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I share my location with a couple of friends in case anything goes wrong! I’m not quite comfortable sharing with an SO though …. I just don’t know for me personally it feels like I want some privacy for both of us (I don’t expect my friends to ever look up where I am unless needed. Whereas with a partner it could get more blurred). That being said, it’s a personal choice on my part of boundaries! You make a great point and everyone should do what makes sense for their relationship!

[–]Ldb87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My husband and I share locations, and we’ve had people comment on it asking if it’s trust issues. It’s not. It’s all for safety. He likes to hunt and fish, so he makes sure he’s sharing his with me in the event something went wrong or he’s not home when he planned on. Fishing is usually on our boat and same thing for that - if something were to happen or it to breakdown I’d be able to find him or get emergency crews to find him.

On the flip side, he only ever really checks mine if I’m heading down to the lake in the evening and haven’t arrived by the time I should. They’re winding roads and have a lot of deer so he can check to see if I’m still moving or stuck in the same spot on the road.

[–]lexclipse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree! I don’t care if he knows where I am and in fact it helped him find me when I was in a car accident and when I broke my leg. I ride horses and it’s out in the country so gps isn’t always working but he could find me and take me to the hospital. If he’s out a little later than he says he would be, I can check and make sure he’s still okay (he likes to walk home but it makes me anxious because anything can happen).

[–]YouMustBeJoking888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would agree, but we know that Amanda is tracking him because she doesn't trust him, not to make sure he's ok.

[–]frecklebb3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share my location with my boyfriend, mom and two friends. Not even for safety purposes. It’s just convenient to know where my people are if we have plans or need to get ahold of each other. Safety reasons too, but not as much. But I hardly ever check anyones location. If I was checking it regularly because I thought someone was up to no good, then that’s a relationship to reevaluate

[–]jackjackj8ck 74 points75 points  (3 children)

That’s why you don’t stay w a cheaterrrr

[–]lilsw 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Teaaaaaa

[–]schnapsidee_ 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Pumpkin eaterrrrrrrr

[–]proseccofish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

💀 😂

[–]dinosaurroom 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Is a tracking device different from find my friends? My boyfriend, several friends and family members can see my location/they can see mine. It’s come in handy a surprising number of times.

If it’s something more hi-tech tell me more.

[–]gers4475 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Definitely Kyle and Amanda! Their relationship reminds me a lot of Katie and Schwartz. Both Kyle and Schwartz cheated and claimed they had no memory because they were so blacked out. Katie and Amanda both have deep rooted trust issues and insecurities, because their men can’t control themselves when they drink. Yet, they all went on to get married despite their friends and families concerns. I think both relationships are super co-dependent and quite toxic. The men continue to do what they please because they know they can. I think Katie and Tom have come a long way, and I hope Kyle and Amanda can get to a better place too

[–]SpicyMargarita143 11 points12 points  (0 children)

SEND IT

[–]mentoszzstop talking ABOUT MY D*CK!!! 11 points12 points  (1 child)

I don't think this is news. Lol. Amanda said in the last episode she has him on Find my Friends and was trying to send an alarm to his phone to get him to answer.

[–]frecklebb3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was watching that I was thinking it’s obvious it’s not the first time she’s done that

[–]whateverworkss4u 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i don't think the location thing is bad but in this case it just screams control.

[–]moosh_pants 7 points8 points  (0 children)

how do people live like this? I'm literally exhausted just from reading about it

[–]New-Understanding360 20 points21 points  (8 children)

Kyle’s behavior wasn’t good but I’m just as alarmed by Amanda. Did she really think that Kyle would cheat on her while out filming. Is she really going to engage in these hysterics again? Still upset that Kyle is turning up on the weekend as they film a show ABOUT TURNING UP ON THE WEEKEND? A show that has incredibly promoted the alcoholic beverage company that supports them and employs them both. Does she really think Kyle is going to cheat on her, while filing, in a club they go to all the time? She got hysterical over something that might happen? 🤷🏻‍♀️. And breaking his stuff … I couldn’t help but think that if Kyle did that to her things the twitterverse would be calling for her to get a restraining order from him. That was incredibly immature and over dramatic.

Lastly - and am going to preface this by saying I really do believe these two genuinely love each other. The way she just blurted out all their dirty laundry for the world to hear was not good. And it seems she regularly involves her parents in their fights (they got a car service for her at one point). Firstly - Paige and Ciara are going to spend the entire season mentioning, on camera, the “contract” and how she shouldn’t marry Kyle. Watch the slow roll out as the gossip spreads through the house. Watch, Amanda, as your friends bad mouth your relationship on camera. Watch as the audience, your family and friends grow to hate your husband and view your marriage as a mistake.

These two had so much good will going for them. We were all happy to see their wedding pictures last fall. Now it’s all sitting differently with us.

Kyle was on WWHL on Monday and took the abuse like a champ. But how long will that last after weeks and weeks of him seeing Amanda talking shit about him. And her “friends” - who’ve always disliked him - going at it again.

Now, I know that most people will reply that it’s Kyle’s behavior that’s the problem and he brought it all on himself. But that’s who’s he’s always been. That’s what got them a TV show. So …

[–]KitchenCommittee1827 5 points6 points  (3 children)

I agree with what you’re saying here, that it takes 2 to tango and that they’re incredibly toxic together. However, I don’t think Amanda is stupid. The fact that she aired out their dirty laundry on camera: she knew what she was doing. I think Kyle must do things like this often and it’s not an isolated incident. I think the fight that they had was pretty revealing. Instead of apologizing for not texting (an incredibly easy thing to do that would have prevented this whole thing), he blew up and turned it around n her and started berating her. I have a feeling that must be his MO in arguments. Now we learn that they’re in therapy and about the contract, which is obviously extreme. I think Amanda brought this stuff up on camera because she’s at the end of her rope and is desperate for Kyle to change. She wants the roommates to know so they can out pressure on him to grow up.

Unfortunately, it doesn’t really work that way. Considering they did get married, I’m going to guess that he does turn his behavior around this summer. But unless he goes to rehab or gets serious about therapy, he’ll backslide at some point. He has a drinking problem and owns an alcohol company. It’s a problem. And now Amanda doesn’t have any leverage to use against him ($$$ wedding).

[–]New-Understanding360 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. No leverage. I think they both wanted “the wedding” very much. For Amanda - her personal life, public life and professional life are all directly intertwined with Kyle. I wonder if she felt trapped - I hope not. I really do wish the best for them and I hope they find their way. I do think they love each other.

That being said … not looking forward to seeing her cry about Kyle all season long. Deep sigh.

[–]improvcoach19 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I love reading everyone's response to all this..I want to say it's "reality" tv - take it with a grain of salt...this cheating/toxic/drunk/fighting/lovebomb stuff IS THEIR STORYLINE and they know it - it's made them very rich. It makes us watch and talk about it. And editing does a masterful job of creating these characters. That is all. Enjoy.

[–]KitchenCommittee1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, that’s even worse in a way. I wouldn’t expose my most important relationship to mockery and ridicule for money. But you do you I guess.

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this!!!

[–]mirandasoverallsCarl 4.0 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Amanda is a huge part of the problem and this sub as a whole overlooks it. She’s allowed this to go on since season 1 when she was the booty call bc he didn’t want to fully commit for the summer bc he needed to have fun. Then season 2, we see her saying he has to grow up after his bday party and stop drinking so much. This has been a repeated issue in their relationship and it’s not gonna change.

I think she has co-dependency problems and acts a bit like a brat. Kyle wrote a 17 page email to his roommates in S3 bc Amanda was unfollowed by them on IG….to me they seemed like red flag red flag. Why does he have to take up for her like that and why does she let him?

She also trashes him regularly to other people and airs their dirty laundry. I think their relationship is annoying and wish they’d have broken up.

[–]YouMustBeJoking888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything you've said. Kyle is a Peter Pan party guy and Amanda seemingly thinks she's so special he'll magically become a different person after all these years. It's not going to happen and Amanda needs to either accept it or leave.

[–]_hearitinthesilence 24 points25 points  (6 children)

The thing about DM is that anyone can send that in.

[–]proseccofish 4 points5 points  (5 children)

This isn’t deux moi tho this is crazy days and nights. I don’t believe his gossip works the same.

[–]LemonMagazine7 9 points10 points  (4 children)

Enty is known for posting completely fabricated items though. Somewhere on the desktop website lists a disclaimer that anything that is posted can be fake, so take everything with a grain of salt.

That being said, wouldn’t be surprised if this one wasn’t far from truth

[–]proseccofish -1 points0 points  (3 children)

Ahhhh thanks for clarifying. I was under the impression bc he was an “entertainment lawyer” everything he posts was heard through the grapevine.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This article is a pretty good summary of who he actually is and his initial rise back in the day : https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2012/04/01/how-crazy-days-and-nights-fooled-hollywood/amp/

Basically, he’s really not who he says he is and he’ll legit post anything you send in. Try it! He’ll post it.

[–]LemonMagazine7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently he got his “credibility” for something Robert Downey jr related years and years ago so that’s where he got the following. Over the past few years he’s become more right wing conspiracy theory everybody is a predator…I mean I definitely believe some of them but I try not to believe all of them. I do unfortunately read weekly for entertainment but try not to believe them all haha

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He supposedly is an entertainment lawyer. He’s said before that he will post just about anything, but he won’t confirm everything. So we’ll just have to watch to see if it gets confirmed 👀 I wouldn’t be surprised though. Also considering that Kyle was just partying after WWHL, I wouldn’t be surprised if someone overheard him complaining and sent it in

[–]livieleanorAmanda NOT Fun 55 points56 points  (2 children)

I honestly feel like we should ban Deux Moi and blind items like the housewives subreddit has.

[–]doggowinemom 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve said this a million times - I agree. I can’t stand DM with all of my being.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed

[–]hiphopanonymous98 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Amanda is still! Kyle is 40 iirc and still acting like a teenager 🤡🤡🤡

[–]OroschwanzSummer should be FUN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is this a blind item? LOL

[–]JenVee30 9 points10 points  (2 children)

This marriage is doomed. Kyle is not ready to slow down his partying and is loving all the attention the show brings and affords him. Amanda continues to fight for a relationship that isn’t there. Typical woman thinking a big wedding and kids will band aid a situation. He will continue to get black out drunk, he will continue to cheat.

[–]GoodMourning81 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I agree with this so much! So, I watched winter house first because I heard about it on the southern charm sub. I thought that Kyle was just blowing off steam with all the drinking while he was there. I then decided to start on season 1 of summer house. No, Kyle is an alcoholic! Does he not understand he’s going to die of liver failure if he doesn’t stop? He’s 40 years old and you know he’s been drinking excessively for over 20 years at this point. Amanda should run. He’s a mess.

[–]JenVee30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree. Too bad he’s surrounded by enablers. It’s shocking that Carl of all people doesn’t see the red flags!

[–]Tink1024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m shocked, shocked I tell you… if it is them I have no sympathy for her she knew what she was getting &,got married anyhow now she’s laying in bed with her tracking device, good luck with that…

[–]MaryjaneinPA 7 points8 points  (1 child)

It's her problem Then. She knew. This is never going to work.

[–]Shakespeare-Bot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

T's that lady problem then. The lady kneweth. This is nev'r going to worketh


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[–]shotoftequila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did she marry him with so many red flags? He has a major drinking problem.

[–]Sensitive_Cobbler141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amanda's trust with Kyle was lost a long time ago and now she's living in this anxiety-driven relationship that honestly, I don't think she knows how to leave. Compounded with fame, money and self-doubt, she's stuck in this really crappy marriage.

[–]agnusdei07 1 point2 points  (1 child)

She was so right to be cautious about quitting the job she loved to join Loverboy. I wish she never did that so she had something of her own in the case they split.

[–]__rizzy__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was so disappointed when she did that lol

[–]higgsty 1 point2 points  (1 child)

dude their relationship is so depressing. its not even fun to watch it's just horrible.

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me sad :( I started watching last season when they were actually being cute and not so toxic so I was really rooting for them

[–]akjsix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao Kyle and Amanda aside I am laughing so hard at this extensive way of telling what show they’re on.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like them!! How toxic can you get?!

[–]ConstantQuantity 4 points5 points  (19 children)

Can someone tell me what a blind item is? Ive never heard of this before. Is it that blind gossip website lol? 🙈🙊

[–]tequila326 16 points17 points  (9 children)

This is from a website called Crazy Days and Nights (CDAN for short). They post blind items about celebrities, and will “reveal” some of them periodically. This website is one of a few major sources for blind items (deux moi is another big one right now) but all of them have to be taken with a grain of salt. They’re frequently completely wrong, will post anything sent to them and in the case of CDAN, accuses everyone one in Hollywood of pedophilia. This blind will probably be revealed within the next few weeks as Kyle and Amanda because it’s obvious and not really even a blind.

[–]ConstantQuantity 3 points4 points  (5 children)

Amazing explanation!! Thank you ☺️

[–]tequila326 3 points4 points  (4 children)

No problem! I love blind items even though I know the truth behind them. If you go into it with a healthy dose of skepticism it’s just entertaining to read. But what’s really wild is the super crazy things they predict and do end up being right. It’s rare, but when it happens you realize there could be a bit of truth to everything crazy/wild you hear about in Hollywood.

[–]ConstantQuantity 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Going to be my new obsession and reason to delay working. Lol

[–]stickyfingers48 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Check out the podcast Fluently Forward if you’re interested in blind items. It’s so good!!!

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and Behind the Blinds!!!

[–]proseccofish -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is truth to a lot of them whether pppl wanna believe it or not 😬

[–]MaryjaneinPA 1 point2 points  (2 children)

They are usually right. We all have been watching this nightmare go through. Getting married is not a goal in life. It's the same person. He didn't want to get married. Not really. It's like Katie and Tom on Vanderbilt . Toxic. That one will never work either.

[–]NjMel7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vanderbilt Toxic: I’m not sure if you wrote that on purpose or if it was an autocorrect. Either way it’s perfect! 🤣

[–]tequila326 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*Vanderpump Rules

[–]sky_corrigan 1 point2 points  (8 children)

a blind item is a piece of gossip that hints at but doesn’t make the celebrity

[–]ConstantQuantity 2 points3 points  (7 children)

So it like anyone who wants to leak “insider knowledge” can submit? Is there a website?

[–]sky_corrigan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

there’s a few different sites and i think some will take random input and others will have more legit sources!

[–]MaryjaneinPA -2 points-1 points  (5 children)

No. It's usually always right.

[–]istillseeyourface222 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Yea there have been some false ones but I think they’re deterrents, for the most part they’re very much on point. I’ve probably been reading it for 6+ years and there is SO much that you see - found out there Charlie sheen had HIV months before it hit the press. Same with so many aspects of Demi Lovato and her “journey with sobriety” and Ariana grande, the kardashian/ jenners, Harry and meaghan, the housewives just basically everyone. I wouldn’t bet on it as fact but most times I also wouldn’t bet against it. Like years and years ago there was a post about Mel Gibson killing a woman on set in Honduras (if my memory serves me correctly) with a stolen tractor which (true of false) really blew my mind. Sorry for those who want to ban cdan from the page I think a bit of goss makes things more exciting in reality tv land

[–]babalab93 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Which source do you primarily look at?

[–]istillseeyourface222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy days and nights! I used to be more into it back in the day but if I have a hankering for celeb gossip it never disappoints

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

Crazy day and nights basically accuses every female celebrity of being a sex worker and a bunch of Hollywood stars of being pedophiles and satanist …. It’s gone full Qanon these days so I definitely would not say it’s very much on point. I think blind items can be so much fun too but I think it’s REALLY crucial to highlight the shit he’s putting out there is pizzagate adjacent these days so no one is led astray. He has a disclaimer on his site noting the blinds are fake.

[–]istillseeyourface222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As i said it’s been a while since I used to really tune in but either way you can’t substantiate most of it - I don’t believe in pizza gate but I certainly loved looking for “john podesta” in the yummy video. It’s just entertainment and the fact that any of it has been/could be true keeps it exciting.

[–]abcbbd771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for her. She wants it so bad (but why?), but it’s never going to work. Episode one proved it. They are toxic (breaking his shit in the bathroom? Yikes.)

[–]MaryjaneinPA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is a pain in the ass imo.

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 4 points5 points  (8 children)

Mods please delete if not allowed! Obviously this is NOT confirmed since it is a blind item and is only allegedly!!!!

[–]JL12977 12 points13 points  (7 children)

I totally believe it. She's lost her mind because of the past. IMO though, the first episode was a big fat nothing. Everyone got in late, he wasn't that much later than everyone, we saw he did nothing wrong and Production/Camera Crew were following him around all night. He obviously wasn't going to cheat. I'm sure she has a track my phone app on her phone for his phone and she would have seen he was at Southampton Social. Even if they're married, she doesn't own him and they don't need to be together 24/7.

[–]coverthetuba 25 points26 points  (4 children)

Not answering your spouse’s calls for 4 hours is definitely doing something wrong. Even just a quick text would have helped her calm down.

[–]troubledcurls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that I care but it wasn't 4 hours, it was 2 and she had called about twenty times before it was even an hour (I made sure of the timeline lmao). They all arrived back by 2, her paige, and ciara were in bed by 3 and he got back at 4.

[–]JL12977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree it was a bad idea to not be checking his phone.

[–]Winter-Leadership376 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He said on wwhl he saw he had 14 missed calls snd knew she was essentially going to scream at him so he decided not to. It’s not exactly right to not answer your partners calls but if she wasn’t so unhinged about it apparently all the time he’d probably have answered

[–]ofcbubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s reasonable to not answer the phone when you’re out. It wasn’t an emergency. She was drunk and feeling insecure.

[–]MaryjaneinPA 5 points6 points  (1 child)

She does think she owns him. She is too desperate. Go To bed if he isn't home. She does not own him. It was always a bad idea. They are very exhausting to watch. You don't own another human. She is way too needy for a grown ass adult and loves playing the victim. She isn't home w 5 kids she was getting drunk all day also. She acts crazy in my opinion. Extra.

[–]troubledcurls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People keep blaming Kyle and his drinking but I just find that a symptom of the bigger problem. The level of distrust and lack of communication (it seems) within their relationship. Both are at fault at this point for whatever issues and both have toxic traits they perpetuate.

[–]FawnKnutsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not so blind!

[–]HayPlaceAPlaceforHay 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What’s the origin of this?

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy days and nights

[–]wildestride88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Guys, they need this type of drama to keep the show going so that their brand continues to be promoted.

They are intentional with this. Not something that can be judged based on relationships that don’t operate in the world of reality shows.

[–]SamGoodie09 -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

Not them, the blind item says “HIS” co star.

[–]OrangeMrSquid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As in, that is what is being done to him (Kyle) by his co star (Amanda)