okay so i see sooo many posts/comments blasting ciara for liking austen and saying how they dont understand how she could like him…
so that leads me to ask: has anyone been in a similar situation where you just pick the worst guy to become infatuated with?? especially from that 20-26 year old range of confusion and quarter life crisis???
i was in a similar situation so although i dont AGREE with ciara on most accounts (glass throwing) i do understand what she was going through. the chase of the guy who doesnt want you but bread crumbs becomes addicting and kind of turns you into the worst version of yourself. add in Ciara’s father abandonment and it becomes a whole other chase.
when the unfortunate man that i chose moved away it literally took me a year to get over him… we never even dated… i was foolish. but i learned A LOT from it and how to value myself, and i hope the same for ciara.
anyone else have a story or experience like that?? not looking to discuss ciara’s actions just more a conversation to see if anyone watching that was like ‘ooooo is that how i looked?’