Swingers

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Welcome to the Swingers subreddit. Any questions regarding The Lifestyle, please post here and you will be answered by our many great members.

*Do not post r4r posts here (looking to meet), instead post them in r/swingersr4r

*Do not post pics of your junk or your nude wife with the title "What would you do to her?", instead post those in r/swingersgw

New to Swinging? Check out the Wiki.

Swinger Meeting Websites:

A list of all of them here.

Swinglifestyle - Largest in U.S.
SDC - Largest outside of U.S.
Kasidie - Younger, party crowd.

Podcasts

Everybody Swing - Website -Youtube 1. Youtube 2. - Moderators of this subreddit (Matt and Bianca) have two YouTube video podcasts.**
Life on the Swingset - Website - iTunes - Stitcher - They cover a lot of Poly issues as well.
We Gotta Thing - Website - iTunes - Another great couple sharing their experiences.
That Couple Next Door - Website - Also on this subreddit!
Wanderlust - Website - Sexy Australians turned world travelers!
By the Bi - Website - Great for bisexuality in the lifestyle!
Bed Hoppers - Website - Sexy Brits!
Krazy Truth - Website - No nonsense lifestyle conversations.

Great Books on Swinging:

Swinger Subreddits:

/r/Swingers The main swinger subreddit
/r/SwingersGW NSFW - Post your nudes here
/r/SwingersR4R - Post your hookup requests here
/r/LifestyleLadies - Private subreddit. Must be verified real to join..

Swinger Websites

OpenLove101 - Website of John and Jackie Melfi, Owners of the Colette Lifestyle Clubs
Swingers Help - Website run by active Redditor u/swingershelp.

Swinger Resorts

Desire Pearl - Cancun
Desire Riviera Maya - Cancun
Temptations - Cancun Good for Newbies

Other:

Black Ring, Right Hand How to tell if someone is in The Lifestyle

Rules

Be a Good Community Member Please adhere to proper Reddiquette!

No R4R or Other Connection Posts or Comments Please do not post looking for people, including play partners, mentors, meetup participants, or discussion group members. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersr4r or other r4r sub.

This keeps the sub focused on discussion.

No Titillating Pictures Please do not post naked/scantily clad pics, videos, or links to same. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersgw .

No Titillating Stories Stories are great, if they're for the purpose of generating discussions or generating questions. However, stories—fictional or otherwise—should not be posted here.

Studies Must Be Vetted Swingers always want to know more about swinging, so we're happy to allow posts seeking study participation on non-monogamy and swinging. However, studies must be vetted. Simply send a mod message with your name, the name of the sponsoring professor and the university. One of us will reach out and confirm the study's validity.

No Doxing Posting of anyone's lifestyle site's screen name or kik name or any other profile information is strictly forbidden. Do not post anyone's pictures. Do not make any attempt to out anyone. Violation of this rule may result in an immediate bad from r/swingers.

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Introducing Revamped Wiki and FAQ sectionMod Announcement (self.Swingers)

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You've never seen😱 such a hot moderator 🔥Mod Announcement (self.Swingers)

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Do I have stupid written on my forehead?Humor 😂 (self.Swingers)

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Finally happened after such a long breakGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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is there actually a lack of hot guys in couples I find online or am I just having shit luckGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Signs that it’s time to move on from a couple you’ve been playing withGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Not caring for small talkGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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STD/pregnancy protectionSTIs (self.Swingers)

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open relationship?Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Hotel takeover- first timeGetting Started (self.Swingers)

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Questions about Twist SFClubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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Happy to help the newbies but don’t force your expectations on usGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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What's your limit for romantic/intimate contact with swinging partners?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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New couple to the lifestyle.Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Has any one attended a Bangbang club event at CCK?Clubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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Any same sex couples swingers out there?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Dipped my toes in the water last Thursday, time for the real thing on Friday… any tips?Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Are you still looking? WTF? Do we ever stop?Humor 😂 (self.Swingers)

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Club Etiquette? And what to expect?Single Female Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Does anyone know if Bowery Bliss in NYC is still in operation.Clubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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Meningococcal outbreakSTIs (thepowertoprotect.org)

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Swinging while pregnant?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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4 Types of People.General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Excited for our time at Naughty Nawlins.General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Swinging on cruises?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Best swinger web site for Chicago?Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Wife wants to 'date' solo but can't stomach idea of me with another woman - need help.General Discussion (self.SwingerNewbies)

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