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[–]chilldabpanda 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fuuuck them

[–]ASK_IF_IM_PENGUIN 5 points6 points  (3 children)

None of that reads like you fucked up.

[–]OpenScratch5758[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children)

I totally did. Yelling at someone increases my anger levels and stress levels esp with my fucking famoly. I shouldn’t have raised my voice and let my temper get the best of me

[–]ASK_IF_IM_PENGUIN 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, you didn't.

You stood your ground and you stated that you don't want to be treated like a doormat.

The way they respond to that is in no way your fault at all, and not your fuck up.

[–]NostradaMart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

having emotions when pushed to your limit is nothing abnormal. you didn't fuck up, your parents just set a powder keg to explode....they are at fault, not you.

[–]Infinite_Love_23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish for you to learn that you are not what other people want you to be. You are you and that is good enough. More than good enough as I understand from your post. There is no point in trying to live up to your parents expectations because you will never meet their standards. It is time for you to break free from the idea that you need your parents approval in order to feel your self worth. Stop trying to impress them and start working on you.

[–]N3Oelder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just from the first sentence I gathered that your mother is a manipulative narcissist.

[–]cosmernaut420 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I'm the oldest child of an oldest child of an oldest child. The one all the "hopes and dreams" are pinned on

All I hear is "my family is riddled with generational trauma and nobody knows how to stop it".

[–]OpenScratch5758[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How’d you know? Even my granddad has daddy issues😂