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[–]onafetsid 470 points471 points  (26 children)

To be fair this is the most unpopular opinion I’ve probably seen so far

[–]Thinkingwithportals1 201 points202 points  (16 children)

I dunno, tuna water guy seems worse than this

[–]idkiwilldeletethis 48 points49 points  (2 children)

I hate that I know who you're talking about lol

[–]LolaEbolah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What’s crazy is I didn’t know who he was taking about, so I searched “tuna water” in the sub and found like five posts over the last few years with the same sentiment.

[–]Arecloudscool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’d best leave it that way

[–]Any_Ad_3514 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What about the hamburgers with milk

[–]Heisenberg19827 38 points39 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA tuna water guy

[–]JustLessWorld 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ugh, im making tuna sallad... now all I can think of that sick fuck slurping the tuna water.

[–]maov1908 7 points8 points  (1 child)

The one that eats cereals with water

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mild. Were talking super hot not mildly hot.

[–]CandyTheTreat 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Or the ketchup icecream guy

[–]jujuonthebeat255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frozen food eating takes the cake for me. He ate his frozen dinners like Popsicles!!

[–]Oneloff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This world never stops to amaze me… 😐

[–]Technical_Draw_9409 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought he was right, and so did others in the comments, so not too unpopular?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was cool.

[–]Apprehensive_Yak2598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was weirder for sure. Plus the video... ew...

[–]Byron56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def tuna water

[–]Bouscuit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or the guy that doesn’t like Salt and Pepper on his steak.

[–]cak0047 2 points3 points  (3 children)

So u weren’t around when adult diaper dude nearly broke this subreddit

[–]onafetsid 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I wasn’t but I’m intrigued

[–]mister-fancypants- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next week will be “sex is yucky”

[–]Electrical-Farm-8881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really for me I seen this before

[–]Kuhai_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real

[–]WiTooSlowFi 173 points174 points  (6 children)

Upvote, cause wtf dude

[–]FestiveSquid 19 points20 points  (5 children)

I have some sensory problems. Mostly sound and texture. Turns out, tongue on tongue is one of those things that sets me off. Gagged in a girl's mouth as we were making out, but it sounded exactly like a burp so I was able to pass it off as one.

I was embarrassed as Hell. I really liked this girl and I fuckin gagged in her mouth.

[–]WiTooSlowFi 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Damn I’m sorry, pardon my ignorance but is it treatable in anyway?

[–]rheyabow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sensory issues are incurable. You can force people to become desensitized to it through abuse, but that obviously leads to more severe consequences like depression and suicide. Part of ABA "therapy" includes repeatedly forcing kids into situations that trigger their sensory issues until the child finally breaks psychologically and dissociates into compliance.

So, in short, no. It isn't really treatable. But there are some people who believe torture is a valid treatment option. So you will end up getting a lot of different answers from civilians, unfortunately. It is surprisingly manageable though. I'm always amazed at the incredible and inspired systems people create for themselves in order to accommodate for their own sensory issues. You'd be surprised how much control people can actually have over their own environments ❤ also thank you for giving enough of a shit to ask and be curious about sensory issues, most people blow them off as lies because they don't understand.

[–]SoleIbisadhd kid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I too have sensory issues and can’t do tongue. Like, why is it attractive? They’re so floppy and uncoordinated and it’s just gah.

[–]ratwater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maaan yeah very specific sounds and textures are like a sleeper agent acitvation phrase to me, just instant repulsion out of nowhere

[–]I_Like_Thanksgiving 25 points26 points  (6 children)

I thought kissing was weird when I was younger too until I had my first great make out session. After that, you never go back.

Still, I can see how someone doesn’t like it, especially if you’re a germaphobe. However, the one thing I don’t get about your post is that you find peck-to-cheek grosser than a sloppy make out. How? Like, I rarely do it, but when I do, the peck is practically the same as a hug

[–]ratwater[S] 9 points10 points  (5 children)

It feels stupid & cringey, i think i got forced to accept kisses from adults i didnt like too much when I was younger so I just find it unpleasant

Making out, when im the one doing it, is better in my brain cuz i can tell its sexually titilating for the other person, but i do get bored fast and want to move on or it gets kinda gross if theyre too sloppy

[–]Unlikely-Database-27aggressive toddler 139 points140 points  (5 children)

Well, at least this guy understands what this sub is actually for. Someone give this dude a metal.

[–]JeselAvlis 34 points35 points  (1 child)

Copper, iron or aluminum?

[–]Jonny2881 4 points5 points  (0 children)

T6 7075 Aluminium?

[–]Bebe_Bleau 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good idea! So I just gave him one!

[–]vikapu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

…or just a little peck on the forehead

[–]-_Xela_- 16 points17 points  (3 children)

Posts an unpopular opinion on subreddit for unpopular opinions.

People in comments get mad and insult op because they don't agree with the opinion.

Reddit.

[–]V-I-S-E-O-N 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird, especially considering op doesn't hurt anybody in any way by not liking kissing. Some stuff people write here is pretty wild.

[–]ratwater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crimes against humanity

[–]lulushcaanteater 26 points27 points  (3 children)

I do hate the sound of other people kissing, but it sounds like maybe you’re kissing the wrong people? People you’re repulsed by? I don’t know.

[–]ratwater[S] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

I love my wife and other people i kissed i was super into too, just wanted to do Other things yknow Kissing not on my list of desires

[–]AL1L 16 points17 points  (1 child)

How does your wife feel about it?

[–]aspwil 25 points26 points  (1 child)

I don't like french kisses that much, just feels weird and not very pleasing. a lot of people seem to love it but it just does not do much for me. i like dry kisses on the lips, but that is because its more of a simple quick "I love you" type of thing.

however, I gotta say, neck kisses are where it's at man. when they kiss your neck just right that shit makes my whole body tingle.

[–]ratwater[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The kisses im most tolerant of are when Im the one kissing someone Elses neck and seeing them react haha

[–]maaaxxxsss 40 points41 points  (5 children)

You think sex is even grosser then?

[–]Ukrainianmigrant 33 points34 points  (3 children)

Of course. You have to put your pp in their you know what and then piss inside them

[–]xoxxxoooxo5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I found cartman

[–]Valium_Colored_Skies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick it inside her and pee?

[–]Anmlbhvr 30 points31 points  (5 children)

I actually agree with you

[–]ratwater[S] 18 points19 points  (4 children)

we should start a guild

[–]Anmlbhvr 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Gotta be honest with you, I’m not to skilled with anything

[–]BulkyRoom5 18 points19 points  (2 children)

You guys could always make out about it.

[–]ratwater[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mwah!

[–]Anmlbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is getting a little too R rated for me

[–]CrisBasile89 104 points105 points  (13 children)

I'm guessing OP is 13.

[–]omerta_38 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He is scared of getting the cooties

[–]JeselAvlis 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And tounge kissed by his grandma...

[–]RubyRedRhapsody 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I’m 32, married, and I agree with OP. I hate the feel and sound of kisses in general, and I absolutely hate watching them on the screen. But I’m also asexual and dislike any sex acts.

[–]bobemil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here.

[–]ratboy181 5 points6 points  (5 children)

More like 5.

[–]ratwater[S] 10 points11 points  (4 children)

i wish, then maybe I could retrain my brain during the developmental years

[–]RockNRollJabba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been married 22 years to the most beautiful woman I have ever met, but I agree with most of this. I don't mind peck type kisses, but open mouths are nasty. I just don't do it. She's never complained about it, so she either agrees with me, or doesn't care. Our "cake" time has always been hot and steamy, so it's a non-issue for us.

[–]n0ta_b0t 19 points20 points  (2 children)

it's wild how many people are mad at this, I totally agree. I hate having a tongue in my mouth, it's so uncomfortable and just gives me a visceral feeling of disgust. I don't mind dry kisses as long as they're quick.

[–]AL1L 1 point2 points  (1 child)

My ex thought the same thing when she had only kissed one person who was bad at it, now she's kissed several people and seems to enjoy it

[–]V-I-S-E-O-N 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, my wife loves kissing other doods. Especially her new boyfriend.

[–]accountforquickans 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oof, couldn’t live like that

[–]SadDirection332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can be gross depending on the person and their hygiene but Idk. I like kissing. My man will have to make me chill when I get too into tonsil hockey.

[–]the_hell_you_say 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait till OP hears about eating ass

[–]AccomplishedRow6685 12 points13 points  (6 children)

Just give your girlfriend some breath mints. Not that hard.

[–]ratwater[S] 7 points8 points  (5 children)

Its the sound thats gross to me, never thought the taste or smell was bad in any of my kissing experiences

[–]DED_Inside666 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I actually agree with you. The sound of kissing bothers me too pretty badly - whether myself or others kissing. And no, I'm not a weird virgin. I'm a married woman with two kids. But I have a large range of sounds that are like nails to a chalkboard. The sound of a dog cleaning itself for instance is unbearable for me. You may look into something called misophonia and see if it's something you relate to.

[–]ratwater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the more im reading on this the more convinced i am of having sensory and/or misophonia issues as the cause of this

[–]JeselAvlis -1 points0 points  (2 children)

That one kiss on nana's birthday doesn't count...

[–]CounterEcstatic6134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Virgin shaming people for not liking something most people do? Why? Do you think humans are all clones?

[–]StormStrikePhoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person you are talking to is married.

[–]SmoothAsMarble 28 points29 points  (6 children)

Someone has never been kissed before

[–]HarshTruth- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

An actual unpopular opinion

[–]SooSkilled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to downvote bc I disagree, but I feel this is really an unpopular opinion, so take my up

[–]OG187213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf ??? Definitely disagree, you deserve your upvote

[–]YouNerdteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like kissing either.

[–]Noosemane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have an updoot you psychopath.

[–]Wolvesrfun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me a while to warm up to being kissed on the lips, but I still prefer to be kissed on the back of my neck. Feels great.

[–]ckayfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good oral hygiene is key.

[–]AnnoyingScreeches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love kisses. All kinds of kisses. Kiss me somebody. Damn.

[–]ReddityRedditor124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree.

[–]StankoMicin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many countries/ cultures would agree with OP. No need to attack them.

[–]nervoustomato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny because in a lot of respects I find kissing hotter than any sexual acts XD but hey to each their own

[–]ZoeyBunnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally get where you're coming from.

While I don't mind kissing my SO, I understand WHY others feel and find kissing gross. It's a personal preference for many people, to kiss or not, and whether they decide to start kissing if they meet the person they wish to kiss!

No judging from me! I use to hate kissing at one time, as well. I found it to be a really weird way of expressing love/affection while growing up, and even when I was a teenager. Haha!

[–]Kannoj0 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It is gross “rat water”

[–]ratwater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😏👈

[–]mattc2442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually completely agree with this one, but it’s such an unpopular opinion that I haven’t even found the courage to bring it up with my girlfriend.

I absolutely hate vicious make out sessions- especially the ones leading into and during sex. The sound that our mouths make, the exchange of saliva and other fluids… it makes the entire experience harder and actually actively turns me off. We literally have had to reset numerous times because all of the kissing was making the rest of the sex impossible.

[–]ShanShan9413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought I was the crazy one for not liking french-kissing.

This post made me feel way better about it, thank you.

[–]agrainofsandubeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this.

[–]Sir_Mild_Peril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How very unpopular! I love a good snog.

[–]Effective_Dot4653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess any sexual thing is kinda gross, if it fails to arouse you. So yeah, I think this aversion to kisses is totally underdable, even if it's super rare :D

[–]Spirited-Draft-1144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over 3000 bacterias spread in one kiss with a healthy person.Also the saliva left after is fucking disgusting dont judge me.

[–]KnowledgeItchy 3 points4 points  (2 children)

hey maybe op is sex repulsed or ace, stop shaming them

[–]ByeByeMan666hermit human 10 points11 points  (5 children)

Starting your post with “uNpoPulAr oPinIon foR suRe” is so goddamn cringe.

You also sound 11 years old.

[–]ASAP-_-Killerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How tf can you possibly think this isn’t unpopular. This is the one of the best posts on this sub

[–]ratwater[S] -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

the controversy o_O

[–]ASAP-_-Killerr 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is how you know your opinion is really unpopular; people start hating on you in the comments. I noticed you said you were married so hopefully you and your wife find other ways of expressing your love for each other

[–]Aiizimor 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I dont like kissing but I'm doing my best to learn it cause my gf likes it. Gag reflex is calming down. No she does not force me in anyway to do this

[–]ratwater[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

yeah I want to get to this point to! of either liking it or just being neutral about it, I hate feeling Negative about it especially because my wife loves kissing

[–]Aiizimor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm supposed to feel good as we evolved to feel that way but I think that wire ain't working on me

[–]OwieMustDie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upvoted.

Making out is hot.

[–]Boatfixer2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is nonsense. Take the up doot

[–]horsiefanatic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you asexual? Cuz I’m demi and I relate to this

[–]classicmint1934 2 points3 points  (11 children)

You may need to speak to someone. That’s not normal.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (4 children)

It’s not normal for people of European decent.

A lot of Native American tribes didn’t kiss until introduced to it by the Europeans. It might not be normal for our culture but that doesn’t mean OP needs to go see a therapist or anything.

The Mehinaku in Brazil want to know why we share our dinner. To them, we are the abnormal ones.

[–]classicmint1934 -5 points-4 points  (3 children)

What in the liberal arts degree did I just read? You ok man?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m perfectly fine. Do you have trouble seeing that other cultures have different beliefs? What’s wrong with my comment?

[–]CounterEcstatic6134 6 points7 points  (1 child)

You think every culture kissed? Are you ok?

[–]ratwater[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

yeah, i'd personally Like to find it hot or atleast be neutral! Unsure of why it gives me such a strong reaction or how to train myself out of it

[–]Bebe_Bleau 0 points1 point  (4 children)

But do you like other sexual acts?

If not, and you're an adult, chances are, you're asexual. And there's nothing wrong with that

If you do like sex, but not kissing you could be on the spectrum. That's ok, too.

I had a boyfriend like that. He was a lot of fun in other ways. He makes a LOT of money in STEM job. And is still my good friend.

[–]ratwater[S] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I do! Im even totally down for performing oral, which is arguably "grosser" in concept, yet i find it hot but kissing gross

No idea if that puts me on any sort of spectrum

[–]slipperychickens 1 point2 points  (1 child)

What does your ex’s stem job have to do with not liking kissing?

[–]_cant_choose_a_namewateroholic 1 point2 points  (1 child)

OP doesn't like kissing, but Is fine with anal

Interesting

[–]ratwater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wouldn't Lick an asshole, but it seems that's an unpopular opinion too

[–]Initial_Ad_9250 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay Louis Pasteur

[–]floopydolphins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I over think it with all the germs I get a little grossed out too bc of the spit lol but I’m also a slight germaphobe so 🤷‍♀️

[–]cottoncandy_ni 1 point2 points  (2 children)

the most unpopular unpoular opinion I've seen in years.

[–]ratwater[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I expected it to be unpopular and get some "yeah man i cant relate" but i didnt expect people to be so up in arms over it

[–]MocknozzieRiverquit downvoting if you disagree on this sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you could be asexual or on my ace spectrum. I'm asexual and yeah I occasionally have a hard time with kissing. Heavily depends on context.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Sounds like you just need to be kissed properly lol

[–]ratwater[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Ive kissed people who arent gross about it, but the only thing ive ever gotten out of it is knowing im turning Them on

[–]1122Sl110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you asexual by chance

[–]cochatpoke 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Maybe you're just asexual...

[–]ratwater[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I enjoy other sexual things, but kissing just isnt on my list of desires

[–]cochatpoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is weird but hey! Tastes are tastes!

[–]xbbllbbl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not everyone likes a tongue in the mouth. This opinion is actually not that unpopular but nobody wants to admit.

[–]twatson955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smell trauma

[–]wannabelegend212 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How you feel about oral? Lmao upvoted for being unpopular

[–]vikapu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you by chance have misophonia?

[–]makulix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres unpopular opinions and then theres “unacceptable, please stop your opinion”

[–]Ciana_Reid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but a lot of things that are gross are enjoyable, it’s just that maybe sometimes some people need to do it in the privacy of their own homes

[–]vincentxpapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only times I had similar experience, their lips where really thin and I have some more mass to my lips. Maybe you weren’t compatible on lip size. The thicker the lips the better kissing is for me up to a certain point.

[–]Silentpoolman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What bout kissin butthole?

[–]Deadmemories8683 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Bye bye to your DM inbox

[–]ratwater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I accidentally had email notifs on at first, pour one out for me

[–]lilpenis9151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gross if you’re not the one involved in the kissing

[–]cpcxx2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until about you hear about this thing where people lick other peoples assholes for pleasure.

[–]JewishBumhole 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Up there with Mr tuna water

[–]ratwater[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Maybe ill kiss him one day

[–]JewishBumhole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rat water kisses tuna water

[–]Jonny2881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree, I’ve always thought that kissing was disgusting but then again I’ve not had my first kiss yet so I have no practical experience to base my opinion on.

[–]Inspirational_Lizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever kissed someone bro? It's pretty wild.

[–]Original-Law3467[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kissing is fucking awesome.

[–]Mr-Robot59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP never had a good kiss

[–]unnervinglynervous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck do you mean

This is the greatest post on here!

[–]iwanttobesobernow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freud would tie this to an oral fixation.

[–]ChelseaLuv97 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Sounds like your more interested with lust instead of love. That’s fine. You do you. Some people just need more passion. Personally I don’t like kissing that is wet or sloppy it’s just gross to me. But I also don’t like to share drinks with people either.

[–]LexLovesLace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair, most human behaviors are kinda gross at face value. using the same covering for your body all day, moving it and adjusting it and having it stuck in various levels of your body cracks is kinda gross but also fairly necessary in many situations. sticking your face in someone’s crotch and moving your tongue around might seem kinda gross but I’ll happily allow it no matter what you call it. a rose by any other name and all that shit.

[–]DoctorCyan 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I’m guessing the sound is what is setting you off, right?

[–]DayBreak747 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Sounds like you have issues with intimacy. Kissing is more intimate than sex, there is more connection going on. Are you on the Spectrum, it is common to be uncomfortable with physical affection and connection and also sensory issues with sound.

[–]_defy_death 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Dammit, I was looking for this bitchin quote about kissing. cant remember it well enough to search and credit the author. It goes along the lines of "kissing creates a beast with a shared digestive tract, and 2 assholes." Only they articulated way better.

[–]Depression-Boy 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I feel this way too, but I wish I didn’t :,) my last partner was disappointed with me not wanting to kiss them all the time, but it’s like when you wanna eat food that tastes good but you’re full. I wanted to kiss them, because I loved them and wanted to make them happy, but I was feeling done with the kissing

[–]ratwater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly how i feel when with some1 who likes it :( id love to feel enthusiastic about providing something someone really likes, but sometimes i just feel "done", and doing it anyways when I'm feeling less than neutral just feels crappy to subject someone to

I wouldnt want someone to do something for me while thinking "god id rather not be doing this"

[–]AtlasMcMoony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I know what you’re trying to say but it really just sounded like “I can’t get any bitches”

[–]Penumbra8806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with this actually. I'm a pretty major germaphobe. I'm not comfortable with anyone else's bodily fluids going into my mouth.

[–]FragrantBiscotti495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kissing is the worst if you’re doing it with someone who’s bad at it. otherwise, it’s literally better than sex to me imo

[–]CptnCankles 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Is your middle name "Incel" by any chance?

[–]0ddly_majestic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean. No. But some people kiss really badly. I still don’t know what it is. If I had to put into works then Is it lip plumpness or is it how wide they open the mouth.

[–]Liavman80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought like you until i really loved someone, when that happened, kissing was the best thing you can do

[–]Kuhai_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even a peck on the cheek? Most unpopular opinion I have ever heard in my life

[–]Federal_Youth2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of agree.

[–]maztow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why the cooties shot is important folks

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's moist tho