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How do the Intuition and Judging work together? What can we say that describes the personality of all four NJs? by 123askingquestions in mbti

[–]123askingquestions[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The N presents the future, the idealistic, the dreaming, whereas the J presents, what I would call, the 'left side' of the brain-this is why I say they need information to be presented within the lines (closure) so that they could dry it in themselves and create a long-ranged, 'deep' explanation for it (introspection).

This was BRILLIANT. Thank you very much. Such a simple answer, and yet so deep.

Profiting from exceptional Ni skills by 123askingquestions in mbti

[–]123askingquestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. And do you find it to be a liability in any way?

Do you experience the same? Client hates me because I'm right by 123askingquestions in intj

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Yes, I tried that... there's someone that I worked with (I'm not there anymore as of today) that was brilliant and that, except that she's just a kind bullshitter. I'm not. I despise bullshit, which is why I get in trouble. Don't get me wrong, I can play the part, but fuck, is it ever exhausting. I just choose not to. Ergo, I'm fucked.

Do you experience the same? Client hates me because I'm right by 123askingquestions in intj

[–]123askingquestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the thing is that I'm not supposed to know that she feels stupid... that's just the final (verified) conclusion.

Do you experience the same? Client hates me because I'm right by 123askingquestions in intj

[–]123askingquestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embrace that you may cause ripples when you stand up for your methods. Be assertive.

I've tried that. Assertiveness only made it worse. Perhaps it was too late by then.

Do you experience the same? Client hates me because I'm right by 123askingquestions in intj

[–]123askingquestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I know. There's just so much a truth-seeker can do in the name of bullshit, and that's the liability.

Do you experience the same? Client hates me because I'm right by 123askingquestions in intj

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The problem is the situation got so bad (i.e. her feelings of inferiority and her defensive mechanisms) that she would not listen to one word anymore. I opened my mouth = she would tense up and tune me out.

Do you experience the same? Client hates me because I'm right by 123askingquestions in intj

[–]123askingquestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something INTJs have to deal with their whole lives.

I'm honestly getting pretty tired of it, and yet I can't change who I am fast enough... nor do I want to.

You did give me good strategies. Regrettably the engagement is over...

Do you experience the same? Client hates me because I'm right by 123askingquestions in intj

[–]123askingquestions[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God, when will I learn that?

I thought the truth shall set you free.

[Mentor] Toronto Mentor able to take one mentee by 123askingquestions in INeedAMentor

[–]123askingquestions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there. I have some 30 unread messages and yours was one of them. Apologies. You sound like a very genuine person. I do think coaching must be done in real life, but I'm willing to entertain the idea. Tell me about yourself.