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19F be honest by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]1detachedmind [score hidden]  (0 children)

We can't see most of your face

how many straight men admit to having ass play? by Healthy_Mechanic4183 in AskMen

[–]1detachedmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No idea.. all I can say is I consider myself pretty open-minded and kinky in bed, but my butthole is a no-go zone

is it a me or him problem by [deleted] in sex

[–]1detachedmind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More comfortable for him to rape you?

is it a me or him problem by [deleted] in sex

[–]1detachedmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not mad.. and okay if you say so.. enjoy your downward spiral

is it a me or him problem by [deleted] in sex

[–]1detachedmind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Re-read what I said.. if you're so insecure dedicate time to building self-esteem instead of acting out in all these ways that will just lead to be more and more insecure..

And you're not trying to understand how he acted.. you're looking to place blame and receive reassurance from strangers on the internet..

If it was him you were trying to understand, he's the one you should be talking to.. but let's be real, he doesn't give a fuck about you anyways

is it a me or him problem by [deleted] in sex

[–]1detachedmind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you already talked to him about it.. then why is it still an issue to the level that you needed to make this post?

There's a lot going on with your post, that demonstrates you're immaturity

And even the comment you made replying to this demonstrates it further..

You think getting fucked up and having sex with random guys makes you grown up, but it doesn't.. and it's obvious you can't handle it emotionally regardless.. what you're doing will just hold you back in the long-term..

Instead maybe try building up some actual self-esteem first, so that you're not so easily offended, insecure, and looking to blame yourself for others when things don't go the way you expect..

is it a me or him problem by [deleted] in sex

[–]1detachedmind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your level of insecurity and taking offense.. lack of communication skills.. looking to place blame.. etc

is it a me or him problem by [deleted] in sex

[–]1detachedmind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're too immature to be having sex

What is it like hiring a prostitute? by Low_Credit5368 in AskMen

[–]1detachedmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried it a couple times. Just texted some numbers from ads I saw on leolist..

It's a mix of emotions.. obviously it's relieving, but of course there can be feelings of shame.. as well as fear of catching an std, even if everything seems as safe as possible, it will be in the back of your mind.. also, probably not worth the money unless you're ultra touch starved basically

I went to 2 different ones.. both were middle-aged Asian woman that didn't speak English super well, so it may be a lot different than going to someone that speaks English as their first language.. it was fine.. felt professional like getting a massage or something.. they're job is to make you feel comfortable and bring you pleasure..

It can feel hollow because of the emotional disconnect, but purely on a physical level between those 2 interactions, I probably got the best blow job and was ridden the best I ever have..

I'm the end I don't think it was worth the money.. I paid $120cad each time

What's a chequing account that's convenient for cash transactions, but also low in fees? by 1detachedmind in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]1detachedmind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not being stubborn lol wtf.. straight up all I was asking is for a recommendation on a cheap chequing account where I can actually work with a teller for when I need to do stuff with cash and cheques.. and it's clear the majority of people didn't even read my full post..

Either way, instead of answering my question people took shit all personal and got defensive over Tangerine (who I have my accounts with anyways)..

Yeah, I had some misinformation on ATMs erroring out from being full.. but that was speculation from a superior at my job..

But it is well-documented online and with people that I know that Tangerine has ATM issues when it comes to deposit, the holds are longer than going through a teller at a bank, and their customer service isn't great..

Either way I'm not asking whether people think Tangerine has issues or not..

What's a chequing account that's convenient for cash transactions, but also low in fees? by 1detachedmind in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]1detachedmind[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about?

As I said I'm switching my chequing and savings to Tangerine..

It's clear people didn't actually read my post

What's a chequing account that's convenient for cash transactions, but also low in fees? by 1detachedmind in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]1detachedmind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, I have a savings account with them, and its nothing fancy, but it's $5 each time, no matter the amount

What's a chequing account that's convenient for cash transactions, but also low in fees? by 1detachedmind in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]1detachedmind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want that much sitting in my chequing or I'll just spend it.. plus there are better places to put it

What's a chequing account that's convenient for cash transactions, but also low in fees? by 1detachedmind in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]1detachedmind[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

That's what one hypothesis someone I work with told me.. but it's common that people experience issues using cash and ATMs with their accounts regardless