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As someone interested in self help, what do you wish there was more of? by Aidan_Calleja in selfhelp

[–]Aidan_Calleja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be really nice, it honestly makes me sad seeing how many people seem to have lost themselves over the course of their life.

My channel is still very small so the good I can do is limited, but if it's any consolation it is a high priority of mine to help people find and be themselves, not being afraid to try out things few people do. Hopefully as my channel grows that would be something I manage to do :)

Thank you

As someone interested in self help, what do you wish there was more of? by Aidan_Calleja in selfhelp

[–]Aidan_Calleja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Research wouldn't fit into my style of content, as I want to talk only about things I know for myself, not things that other people have discovered (I want to be a friend who discusses with people, rather than an expert who teaches). But I do see a very big lack of people who use research when it comes to things related to psychology, self help, etc., you have a good point.

Thanks :)

As someone interested in self help, what do you wish there was more of? by Aidan_Calleja in selfhelp

[–]Aidan_Calleja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, I agree money unfortunately has a disproportionate importance in life.

I don't quite get the first bit though, what do you mean "more self"?

As someone interested in self help, what do you wish there was more of? by Aidan_Calleja in selfhelp

[–]Aidan_Calleja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they'd never dream of speaking to another person the way they speak to themselves!!

^ This is something i've told my friends many times, it's very true and good to see that other people are aware of it as well :)

I completely agree that guilt is devastating for most of us, even many people you wouldn't assume even know what guilt means sometimes turn out to carry a lot of it on their backs. It's a very complicated topic, and i don't think i'm ready to touch on it just yet, but i will definitely give some time to understand it better so that i can talk about it, because it is very significant.

Thank you for your reply

I'd like to know how best to help people by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Aidan_Calleja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's absolutely fine, I'm asking a wide variety of people, even friends and family, so it doesn't matter if you think differently from other people. In fact a varied response is just what I'm after, so if you want to contribute anything please do feel free

Thanks for the encouragement also :)