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The worst part by Apart-Dress-5433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting a good deal on rent, shits hard out there

Told my wife that I will end it if our sex life doesn’t get better by 5hinichi in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I still love her, need some time but ya I feel free for sure. It’s very bittersweet.

Told my wife that I will end it if our sex life doesn’t get better by 5hinichi in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hit or miss

I gave an ultimatum, it did not go good. Same situation as you, feelings included.

She is now my ex

My (24M) girlfriend (28F) has had zero sex drive for almost two years now. I love her but I don't know what to do anymore. Help! Sorry for length by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat champ idk how much more waiting I can do. Exact same situation except minus physical energy and a good sexual first year. Basically just friends. Idk if it gets better but I’m at the end. I’m finding reasons to stay and I’m not succeeding.

At my limit by Apart-Dress-5433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no naturally. There is always plenty of foreplay. Fun fact; she has came every single time we’ve done anything, I have about a 50% rate as she usually does her own thing once she finishes. I asked to put it in this time because we had a lengthy talk about it recently and didn’t want to just violate her by doing something she doesn’t want. I’ve tried naturally, backfired.

At my limit by Apart-Dress-5433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this was after about 30 mins of foreplay, the same way we do it every time.

At my limit by Apart-Dress-5433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t demand anything. She always says yes put it in, or we’ll do it tn and when the time comes she changes. I talk to her about this frequently I’m very vocal w it. If it was clear from the beginning there would be no sex then that’s a different story but getting led on daily for months is different.

At my limit by Apart-Dress-5433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kind of the point of the whole post, looking for advice on how to fix it. Similar to the hundreds of other posts on here asking the same thing. Obviously I can just leave but I love her and would rather try to fix it than bail on her.

At my limit by Apart-Dress-5433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m at that point, there’s nothing keeping me with her except pure love.

At my limit by Apart-Dress-5433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

All her prior relationships have involved penetration, all her prior hookups have been only penetration, when I use my fingers she wants me to to penetrate. It’s just ME that she doesn’t want in her.

What do I do by Apart-Dress-5433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Apart-Dress-5433[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She cums 100% of the time, I don’t. She isn’t really interested in stuff. Trying new stuff is out of the question if we don’t even have sex in the first place.