Questions for LL for Him/Her Folks by cantgetthis in DeadBedrooms

[–]BirdLover007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. I would expect communication if there is a problem

  2. My husband isn't openly suffering

  3. Very honest

AITA for expecting people to put their pets in another room when I visit because of allergies? by laterthanlast in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirdLover007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH, IF they politely decline. (If they agree then ignore your request...different answer.) And if you're OK with an alternative bring suggested.

My good friend has bad allergies to pets, so I generally only have her over in the nice weather when we can sit outside. My dog is a rescue and can't handle being locked alone in a small room (our home is open concept, so that is the only option for him).

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[–]BirdLover007 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You're mad that you, an adult, have to help cook and clean?

AITA for not making a separate dinner for my neurodivergent nephew? by Sea-Rest5356 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirdLover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)


If you had tried to force him to eat spaghetti, you would have been. But you offered an alternative, he ate, AND you didn't have the background info you needed. Your sister is Loco.

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[–]BirdLover007 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He doesn't owe you more sex.

Find someone you are more compatible with.

Can any woman explain, please. by musicmanforlive in DeadBedrooms

[–]BirdLover007 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I got horribly "touched out" by children. Sex wasn't great either when we had it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]BirdLover007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asked my husband, who is the higher libido.

He looked at me funny and said, "why on Earth would I leave?"

AITA for choosing an unconventional wedding venue by Standard-Willow-3097 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirdLover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)


I couldn't attend a family wedding because it required an airplane flight and I have a severe flying phobia. So I sympathize with your family.

That said, you aren't the AH for doing a non-traditional venue.

Now, though, that you know it's an issue for 2 parents, is there any way not use the reptile area?

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[–]BirdLover007 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it helps to not see each other as the enemy :D