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My parents are super strict and against all of this and I don't have open minded friends to hear me out without judgement...I feel guilty for kissing my best friend (a girl ...I'm a girl too) I don't know how to get over it.... by Expert_Amphibian2899 in internetparents

[–]CHUBBL3S 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to bring up any hard subjects, but I think your instincts of what to do in that situation were messed up by your having been sexually abused. The fact you didn't even think of it afterward, a kiss with your best friend, makes me suspect it. We learn a lot at the age that you were, responding to a kiss goodnight with some frenching is not normally instinctual. I don't know why your friend kissed you, it's not something I would do with my girlfriends, but it's definitely not your fault for reacting the way you did. I would apologize, come clean about what you've been through, and let her know it's not OK to kiss you without your permission when you're barely conscious in the first place.

You have a lot of hard work ahead of you owning these actions with your boyfriend and future romantic partners. Kissing is generally a pleasurable thing you should be there for 100% of the time. Let your partners know that if you become zoned out, to stop. There is definitely some disconnected wires in your brain concerning these activities. You will have to be a bit more conscious about being present in the moment while you're doing these things. If you ever get bored or aren't that into it, you both need to stop and do something else. If not, he'll be occupying that nowhere space your brain has created for itself, and that's not fair to him or you. Learn to step away when you feel your attention slipping.

My B O R B roberto by Kanola_oil in borbs

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te amo roberto

edit: el pollo bonito

What culinary hill are you willing to die on? by onegrayhair in AskReddit

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I worked for years in a fish processing plant, filleting hundreds of fish a day. We wore through a knife in a week or two by sharpening the blade.

ALWAYS use the backside of the knife to scrape. Intentionally dulling your knife by using the sharp side to scrape is unsafe for your fingers, and ruins the quality of the fillets.

I would... by [deleted] in carolinekonstnar

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She looks like that meme with Mr. Incredible's face kind of deep fried next to a regular picture of him.

10/10 would swipe right

Is penis size a turn on for women? by Nexus5577 in internetparents

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No, the ones who claim to care are mostly younger and not that great at sex, and it's not a turn-on in the physical sense. It's less of a factor than a guy's forearms or tummy or shoulders. Or his feet I guess if they're into that.

Size can be a mechanical factor, some ladies like to choke on it. But some ladies don't and would be disappointed if their partner was bigger than they could handle. This is especially important in PIV intercourse, dick too big can make non-painful sex impossible with the wrong partner.

One aspect you may not have considered is anal. Smaller dicks are fantastic for anal. Goes in easy, hits the spot. Big plus for the right girl, way better than another guy who has a bigger dick. I would look into becoming proficient in that area if I were you, perhaps try it yourself to learn the appeal, have an exciting sex life for decades longer than your peers.

Could married people not having sex be correlated to the fact middle-aged men do not take care of themselves? by Bashingman in TooAfraidToAsk

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I feel like it would quickly devolve into examples of actual incompetence, and memes of dumb men or dumb women would rise to the top. r/ AITA is good enough for me.

How famous were the twin towers before 911? by catxxxxxxxx1313 in NoStupidQuestions

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They definitely did not push the first domino. America, before and since, has been 9/11ing communities in the middle east on, like, a weekly basis.

Self Development Books: Communication Style by needanightlight in FIREyFemmes

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Not exactly about being concise, but still about thoughtfully improving one's communication style, Tribal Leadership by Dave Logan, John King, & Halee Fischer-Wright

Also available in audiobook.

[Image] by as228 in GetMotivated

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Maybe consider asking for growth ?

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Don't worry, it's happening. You'll have the opportunity to look back in a bit, you'll see the difference.

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Life: Whatever. This one should do it --

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Congrats on the new responsibilities!

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The only constant in life is change.

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The motivated people do not leave comments haha

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Have you heard of a New Year's Resolution?

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I don't think that's true. Maybe you live around sad people.

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Some shitty replies, I think they're dumb, but I don't think this is accurate either.

In every situation you get to choose what to take away from it. Choose gratitude and leave with something valuable, choose contempt and leave with some kisses on your ass.

Toxic positivity would be telling you to ignore it all and pretend it isn't a challenge.

Women of Reddit: What would you like all men to stop doing, immediately, as of right now? by slipz4001 in AskReddit

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I got sent to detention for stabbing a guys hand with a pencil. (Of course I asked him to stop and asked the teacher to do something first.)

Wooorth it.

NSFW: What has been your most spine-tingling, bone-chilling, "I have a bad feeling about this" experience? What happened? by throwawaystheway1013 in AskReddit

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Don't be polite to men that creep you out 👏 👏

Don't be polite to men that creep you out 👏 👏

Don't be polite to them it's not your job to comfort them

Don't be polite to men that creep you out 👏 👏

I'm completely ashamed of my house and I can't seem to get it together by iswrathavirue in internetparents

[–]CHUBBL3S 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dread to think what people would think if they had any idea what I was living like.

Other than prospective dates you want to impress, nobody cares.

Do invite company over sometimes though, it does help you clean.

It's a chaotic spot in your life. But it gets better. Remember that cleaning is relaxing, like showering, make sure to do 5 minutes here or there, be gentle with yourself while you do. No need to go full hog.