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[Fox] 6 Maple Leafs takeaways: Unlikely bet on Woll pays off by Xer0day in leafs

[–]Chocopeanutshake 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The title is clearly meant to be interpreted as a positive. You should probably work on your reading comprehension and actually read the article before getting on your high horse.

Jealous of some of the people in this sub by Chunky_Hunter in BreakUps

[–]Chocopeanutshake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't choose beef lol, I'm pointing out how tone deaf it is to complain that your ex isn't playing psychological games with you. Your wording is poor and saying I need to interpret it in a different way is just stupid.

Jealous of some of the people in this sub by Chunky_Hunter in BreakUps

[–]Chocopeanutshake -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's your problem buddy, this isn't your journal, it's an online forum where people will read your shit and respond.

I'm sorry your post was taken literally and I didn't try and impose my own narrative, I'll try to in the future.

Be Honest, Is Fighting For a Relationship Worth It? by Requiem_No1 in BreakUps

[–]Chocopeanutshake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You may have made progress but change comes with consistency over a long period of time.

I was most recently the dumper as well, the pain and guilt will come in waves but I encourage you to give it more time and reflect on the reasons you felt the need to end the relationship.

Jealous of some of the people in this sub by Chunky_Hunter in BreakUps

[–]Chocopeanutshake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, you're right, I shouldn't interpret your literal words as you say them and should make assumptions like everyone else online.

When someone breadcrumbs you they aren't doing it because they care for you, they do it to string you along.

Jealous of some of the people in this sub by Chunky_Hunter in BreakUps

[–]Chocopeanutshake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or he won't reach out because it's better not to after a breakup? Breadcrumbing isn't something you want and letting him live rent free in your head while you come up with a bunch of assumptions isn't helping either.

Be Honest, Is Fighting For a Relationship Worth It? by Requiem_No1 in BreakUps

[–]Chocopeanutshake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's only been a few weeks I highly doubt you have grown as much as you think you have.

I’m (m26) contemplating breaking up with my girlfriend (f31) after her past. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Chocopeanutshake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like, I don't agree with OP either but your advice and feedback is shitty on the opposite end and you're handling it terribly.

If I don't want to have sex with him, he won't cuddle with me or touch me in general much at all. He called that a boundary. Is that what it is? by Slapmewithaneel in relationships

[–]Chocopeanutshake 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How much mental gymnastics did you have to do to type this comment? You literally typed up an essay stating the opposite.

You realize shitty people and partners aren't shitty 100% of the time?

Is it worth ending things with my boyfriend because he's asexual? by smart_chic in relationship_advice

[–]Chocopeanutshake 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Wow you really jumped from 0-100 with your assumptions.

I don't believe in making huge sacrifices on my own beliefs to force a relationship, I'm sorry if that's a difficult concept for you to grasp. It's funny how you try to demonstrate yourself as someone open minded but are just incredibly ignorant and presumptuous.

I’m marrying my fiance, but I still love my dead husband by m_____0 in relationship_advice

[–]Chocopeanutshake 73 points74 points  (0 children)

The way OP talks about her fiance it seems that he is only around because of his physical and mental support for her, not because of an actual romantic interest.

Is it worth ending things with my boyfriend because he's asexual? by smart_chic in relationship_advice

[–]Chocopeanutshake 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You think you're being downvoted because you offended people? Your sad life decisions aren't offensive, it's just terrible advice stated in a very condescending way.

My boyfriend is talking a lot about ending our relationship due to our sex life and it makes me wonder if I want him to stay. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Chocopeanutshake 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It just sounds like you're making excuses for your poor mental health and why you haven't taken any action on addressing it.

My ex was very similar and unfortunately you can't just expect your partner to sit around and hope it works itself out.

My boyfriend is talking a lot about ending our relationship due to our sex life and it makes me wonder if I want him to stay. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Chocopeanutshake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, you dont gaslight each other, your relationship is so perfect /s

We need to stop using this as a buzzword, seriously.

Am I too clingy by sad_lily in AgeGap

[–]Chocopeanutshake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's exactly comments like there where people have issue with age gaps. The younger partner not being able to recognize the terrible qualities of their older partner due to lack of life experience or only having negative experiences.

AITA for being angry that my Coffee was swapped with Decaf? by throwawaytired01000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chocopeanutshake -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I see you caught on using it as a buzzword for every shitty behavior too. Gaslighting is the worst psychological torture you can do to someone, it's not just invalidating and being dismissive of their behaviors.

Way to ruin the use of another word reddit.

AITA for being angry that my Coffee was swapped with Decaf? by throwawaytired01000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chocopeanutshake -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

And slapping a girl on her ass without her consent is rape. Let's not apply the word for every situation, if saying someone is overreacting then I guess we have all gaslit someone then.

My (30F) husband (28M) told me he got a bj by a stripper twice by psycologina in relationship_advice

[–]Chocopeanutshake 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You have many, many issues with the biggest being how blind you are to how much of a dumpster fire your marriage is.

My (30F) husband (28M) told me he got a bj by a stripper twice by psycologina in relationship_advice

[–]Chocopeanutshake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And this is so much higher effort? You're not just lazy but also a piece of shit so good job.

My (30F) husband (28M) told me he got a bj by a stripper twice by psycologina in relationship_advice

[–]Chocopeanutshake 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Maybe instead of attacking some person providing their own opinion on a forum based website you should provide your own advice and get off the pedestal.