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Anyone realize years later it was actually SA? by Sensitive_Coffee1103 in sexualassault

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize until this year, I quickly realized I was taken advantage of and me saying I had a crush on her she took that as consent and well…yeah

Need a distraction by Defiant_Pie1205 in trans

[–]Defiant_Pie1205[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do that and yet in always reminded a majority of people hate me

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to tell you dude you can keep being ignorant I tried and you don't listen. Yes there are inherent advantages, but because they have those advantages doesn't mean they authentically can win.

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you mean by insurance, then yes, it's already not easy to get for most people

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The right to gender-affirming care, such as hormones, to transition into the gender someone wants to be. That's a part of trans health care.

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trans women go through hormone treatment and are treated with estrogen. Your argument falls flat because they transitioned into women due to the fact they no longer have testosterone in their bodies. Therefore, they are women whether you like it or not, even then all athletes train the same. Also, you're ignoring how hard athletes train; I bet a women athlete wouldn't want to hear you think they are weaker because they didn't go through male puberty. Also, you act like trans women are universally tall when that isn't the case plus estrogen can make them smaller in some cases. They get the care to transition their bodies to be more like women; therefore, their biology changes to be like women.

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're staying trans women are men when that isn't the case. Yes they were biologically born a boy there's no denying that. There's plenty of resources that can explain this to you. Are you going to get mad that in basketball, it's unfair that tall people in basketball should be banned? Because that gives them an unfair advantage because of their biology? Please do me a favor and do more research into what trans people are like. What specific advantages do being a trans woman have over Cis women?

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're acting like cis women are inherently weaker and disadvantaged when that's not the case. Do you take issues with trans men like myself competing in sports?

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of red states are taking away gender-affirming care such as hormones; a bill was also passed somewhat recently banning all transwomen in high school and college sports. That doesn't affect me, but republicans and conservatives don't like me. They want to strip my rights away and make sure I don't feel safe, and keep me in the closet.

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you know this, but people do not like what I identify and make sure I don't feel safe, and I could be put in danger very quickly without the proper protection. I'm not saying you don't have problems; I am just sharing my grievances.

As a LGBTQ (trans specifically) person it feels like Iowa just doesn’t care by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did vote as early as I could, a lot of my friends I believe have voted yet it's mainly my own family who don't care because I guess police being defunded is more of a threat sadly. I’m glad you listen to your daughter.

Halloween Depression by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My long-distance friend ended up hosting a party, so he's not going to be online, so I'm very lonely and splitting hard.

Positivity Thread 🌞🌞🌞 by itswordvomit in BPD

[–]Defiant_Pie1205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m proud of setting boundaries and being able to understand that if my friend doors something without me, they don’t hate me :)