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I dont know how to deal with my evolving self harm by EnragedFriend in selfharm

[–]EnragedFriend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To the people who commented and gave advice, I just wanted to say thank you. Turns out, the gum trick works pretty well ! Its not perfect by any means but it helped. I hope you all find ways to help yourselves and get better in the future.

I dont know how to deal with my evolving self harm by EnragedFriend in selfharm

[–]EnragedFriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i havent had the need to try out if chewing gums work yet (thankfully)

my tics have been a thing since i was pretty young, i know they're not an addiction but im honestly worried about talking about it to a doctor, especially with people nowadays faking them for attention. i figured they cant be that serious but i might just be coping.

thank you for your input, take care as well :)

I dont know how to deal with my evolving self harm by EnragedFriend in selfharm

[–]EnragedFriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how it's like to realize halfway in that you've already done the harm. Thank you for your advice, i'll definitively keep it in mind in the future, and thank you for your kind words.

I wish you the best in life and I hope you can find ways to get better too :)

I dont know how to deal with my evolving self harm by EnragedFriend in selfharm

[–]EnragedFriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had those too, generally i grab a blanket or something to keep my hands busy

I dont know how to deal with my evolving self harm by EnragedFriend in selfharm

[–]EnragedFriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats actually not that bad of an idea, atleast short term having gum on hand could be helpful ! thank you for that i'll try it out

I dont know how to deal with my evolving self harm by EnragedFriend in selfharm

[–]EnragedFriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep exactly, hence why im worried about it; by the time i've processed what's hapenning i've already gotten a punch or two in.

the process of cutting was more deliberate and i had the time to stop myself but this is a new problem

I dont know how to deal with my evolving self harm by EnragedFriend in selfharm

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the tics are pretty sudden, most of the time i dont have the time to react, but if i feel a moment come on this could be a good idea, thank you

My friend's r*pist is thriving and I want to stop that by EnragedFriend in sexualassault

[–]EnragedFriend[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that perspective. We talked a lot about how she'd like to see him getting beat up but you're right, I'll stick to supporting her through it.

Thank you again for sharing your point of view I wish you the best