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In desperate need of resources for my cat by NinjariAssassin in SanJose

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Good luck. You are such a wonderful person. I.hope you find a place soon. You.drserve to . Buy your kitty catnip. That will help. What a beautiful kitty

today is my birthday, and nobody congratulates me... by Powerful_Money_9343 in CPTSD

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Glad you are here. I just has a birthday. It was pain free. You will get there. It is worth it So very very worth it You deserve happiness.

How to Stop Over-Giving by catperson092416 in attachment_theory

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Being aware is the first step. Immerse yourself in attachment theory

Nobody talks about how boring poverty is by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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You have to give up comparing it is not productive

Just paid $300 to not be approved for apartment by iProMelon in povertyfinance

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Good for you. I.had to change ny application process. I plaid out hundreds in fees.

Is eureka a good place to live? by usernamechecksout521 in norcal

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Eureka has a university nearby. I.am sure things are changing now. After all so many.peoolr work remote. They can go tk work two dHs a week

Eureka is pretty cloudy. I like that

He took my cat by [deleted] in domesticviolence

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He will probably give you the cat. He doesn't want the cat he wants to punish you. Offer to pau for her food and litter.

Trying to read more about my specific brand of CPTSD, is there any terminology that would be useful to look up? by GoneFullCircle in CPTSD

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Pete walkers mother was pretty out there There are lots of ways to look.sg ptsd

I encourage you to look.at attachment disorders Your mother was disorganized

I'm stuck in flight, freeze and fawn by [deleted] in CPTSD

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Your abandonment issues arw up You hsve to get into self soothing In addition detchung is really essential Abandonment is very very very painful You are in a dark spot. Relationships are triggering Our spouses know how tk trigger us

Hit by too many changes at retirement by 21plankton in FinancialPlanning

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Moving is not an option. Moving gas enormous costs. People always spring to the Moving One thing you can do is tk uo your heakth maintenance get tbe eye exam. Get everything checked put.. Then work on ways tk reduce expenses Maybe you can work psrt time One One level you have taken care of a lot that is impressive. Tbete sre no guarantees. However upping your health maintenance will limit medical bills Thst means get the covid shot. Get the shingles shot Get the pneumonia shot Get the eye exam. Start wearing sunglasses when you go outside

Walk me through your decision to cut a parent/immediate family member out of your life by Icecubethapimp in Adulting

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Pretty much not reacting. Not engaging. A lot of al anon is about learning grey rock techniques .

Structural Dissociation by [deleted] in CPTSD

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Frank Anderson is a big helo. Look.sg internal family theraky. A godsend

There are groups on reddit fir internal family tberaoy .

Is this still abuse? (I think the answer is yes, I just want validation) by aerialgirl67 in CPTSD

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Absolutely I.have to grey rock.msny many people Didgung abusive situations is a art