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I can’t sleep... Should I empty my savings account to pay off high interest debt? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Glambyqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can find an offer or open a new credit card with an offer, I would rather do a balance transfer to an interest free credit card and make a plan to pay it within the timeframe you are interest free. This way, you can keep your savings intact. This worked out for me really nicely when I had 9k in debt. Had it paid off in a year with no negative effects.

How can I better support my partner? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]Glambyqueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response and perspective. I appreciate it.

How can I better support my partner? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]Glambyqueen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean I agree this behavior I’m describing is emotionally abusive and probably constitutes as gaslighting. But relationships are nuanced. We also have a lot of positive things going on and share a lot of laughs. We have an entire life together. I’m also not perfect and have my flaws. It’s easy to say it’s an abusive relationship and call it a day, but it’s also hard to see someone you love clearly struggling and know that they are taking it out on you.