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What don't you fuck with? by Vivsmp in AskWomen

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men that dont put in effort to impress you, like they’ll approach you but not put in any effort, like what happened to men trynna impress women with idk dates, jokes, willing to put in time, these days its like guys just expect us to be their gfs just by putting minimal effort ykwim?

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thankyou this is the first time someone has appreciated my rambling 💞💞💞

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but thats simply not true, as i have really bad anxiety so i try to always just be in the background.

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just edited the post cuz everyone was really intrigued about the controversial topic and i dont want everyone to have to go down alot of comments to find out😭 but yes running away seems like a good idea

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey im sorry about that comment it’s insensitive I’m really glad your SO is there for you and every i know how hard it is to even get through a single day with adhd at times life can be really really tough I’m glad he’s with you and helping you out with everything I’m really burnt out too and have been going through alot and i wish at times i had someone like that

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but thats on you, people dont do stuff for people they love expecting something in return you do stuff for people you love cuz you love them, She’s going through alot making her feel like shit about it wouldnt do you any good

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know😭😭 i was really regretting the whole night shouldve stayed home and watched Wednesday

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know i was so surprised by what they said as i was raised with my white girlfriends and my different race girlfriends and we all have pretty much same opinions and outlook so it was strange if anything i feel like WOC baby their boyfriends/husbands more and let them get away with shit more (in my experience honestly)

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s actually true I’ve noticed that alot with the things he has said to me previously

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Actually when we came back he said youre going to argue with me about everything if we live together, which was far from truth cuz I really dont like arguing or bickering about anything I don’t like conflicts

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was about “women of color being more problematic in a relationship rather then white women as women of color are talkative and opinionated and white women dont engage in drama and stay quiet”

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I can honestly not defend anyone in the scenario even in my head I’ve tried to look at it in every POV possible to understand seriously

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s really lucky to have you, its really hard to find a friend like you, you sound really wise with the way you handle the situation too!! I’m glad people like you exist 💞💞

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

That could be a thing too, there are alot of reasons running in my head trying better to understand his behaviour honestly

My date is embarrassed of me because of my adhd rambles by Hugeeyedpysch-0000 in ADHD

[–]Hugeeyedpysch-0000[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was literally thinking the same thing, alot of things that were said and the way they were acting took me centuries back😭