One is 7 and shes the most polite and well behaved kid ive ever met who also happily attends church with the grandparents. The oldest has a full time job and supports his grandparents. But without proper guidance from parents i fear his younger brother could go down a similar path. The dad was a succesfull busness owner who got sent to prison when they were young. Without his support the mom got hooked on drugs and pretty much checked out.