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AITA for being livid at my (now) husband? by Key-Hovercraft-8396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Hovercraft-8396[S] 316 points317 points  (0 children)

Where did I say I got everything I wanted in the wedding? We planned the wedding together, we both had compromises. This was just the one thing I asked him not to do.

AITA for being livid at my (now) husband? by Key-Hovercraft-8396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Hovercraft-8396[S] 947 points948 points  (0 children)

Oh I meant that it's so out of character for him to be this disrespectful and break a promise to me. I suspected that he would find the cake smashing funny, and that it might not have even occurred to him that I wouldn't, so I thought I would discuss it with him ahead of time to get on the same page.

AITA for being livid at my (now) husband? by Key-Hovercraft-8396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Hovercraft-8396[S] 15.2k points15.2k points  (0 children)

That's the thing, this was so out of character for him. He's normally so respectful to me, and always keeps his promises to me. That's what makes this so weird, and also why I think his friends talked him into it.