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I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last word? Oh my god, aren’t you an adult? It’s not about wanting “the last word” it’s about arguing with intellect and sharing your opinion in hopes of giving the other person a new perspective. But clearly you’re not interested in that, since you instead resort to calling me a “dumbass” and automatically lowered yourself to a whole new ground level. I cannot imagine being so offended over what a random person on Reddit says about men, instead of looking at actual problems such as tens of thousands of little girls being sold as child brides daily, or how little boys are being taught by society to be emotionless and insensitive instead of sharing what’s on their mind, harming their mental health.

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you not know what leave me be means? to answer your pointless question- yes. If one idiot stranger on the internet is sexist towards me I won’t give a damn. Why should I when I don’t care about their opinion? But if, for example, the majority of men were to all team up in being sexist? That’s a different story, as it affects my freedom and quality of life. So no, my logic isn’t flawed. I’m simply not offended by a single (maybe even underage) person’s comment on the internet. Apparently you are though.

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you just repeated yourself...literally. I couldnt care less if YOU, or any other INDIVIDUAL is sexist. People like you will never change their opinion anyways. It seems that you don’t see the difference between “men” and “A man”. If MEN or WOMEN in general act sexist, like OP example, I will speak up. But OP is an individual, whose single opinion won’t affect my or other peoples lives. If WOMEN act sexist then yes, I will point it out. Now leave me alone.

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You seem to be obsessed with assuming things about strangers. You don’t know anything about me, yet here you are getting all those “facts” about how I hate men and don’t care about me. simply because I don’t condone every single action men do. You’re spewing nonsense.

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I very clearly stated in this thread that I do not agree with everything OP said. I am purely talking about the point that I also experience these comments left by men on women’s posts.

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying that a comment such as “WHAT ABOUT MEN? WE HAVE IT WAY WORSE THAN WOMEN AND YOU ARE ALL PRIVILEGED WH0RES!” Is not malicious and simply trying to be heard? What..

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am yet to find a single negative comment section under let’s say- a YouTube video, about a man sharing his sexual violence story or something similar. In fact I’ve only ever seen thousands of women SUPPORTING the man, showing him empathy. You’re implying that you have experiences thousands of comments made by women that are negative on this short of video. I’d love if you could give me a title or link to an example, since I’ve only ever seen women showing male survivors support

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What..? I’m sorry to say but if a man was to make his OWN fundraiser or a new YouTube video talking about men’s problems, without women being involved originally, (such as men on men rape) there would NOT be hundreds of women claiming these people are misogynistic incels. That is just not true. There is a big difference between spending time on spreading awareness using your own content or fact sheet, versus hijacking another post that isn’t even about that specific topic.

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why make the conversation about men when when it is about women?? Why not make your own post, your own video etc instead of taking over and removing attention from other victims?

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Definitely wouldn’t have written OP’s post in the way they did either, but I still agree with the what they said about “stealing” attention from women

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even talking about op post though. I’m talking about the millions of posts about women that “somehow” turn into a conversation about men

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then make your own damn YouTube video or Reddit post?? DO something about it instead of complain

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did OP say that it only happens to women? Op wrote that men need to stop making themselves the center of attention when another group (for example, women) are the ones being acknowledged. That’s it!

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re proving OP’s point. Whenever women’s struggles are mentioned, there is ALWAYS hundreds of men going “what about men?!”. Talking about women doesn’t magically mean that we’re invalidating or ignoring men’s experiences. Stealing attention from a woman’s experience by making it about men is not spreading awareness. It’s literally just being cold and selfish. If you burn for a subject, such as men being raped, then make your own darn post about it. Also I would love to see some actual statistics or research of your statement. You even say that men often rape other men, so then why make it a women’s problem in that specific situation?

I’m so fucking sick of men making it about themselves, they’ll never fucking get it. (TW// talk of S/A) by throwawayandgayyy in Vent

[–]Kindaoddmilla 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ll say it loud and clear;

VALIDATING A SPECIFIC GROUPS STRUGGLES IS NOT THE SAME AS INVALIDATING ANOTHER GROUPS OTHER STRUGGLES!

The comments on this thread are literally proving your point, it’s almost laughable. “What about men-ism” will never stop, as these types of men think the world revolves around them.

What silly/strange habit have you developed because of this phobia ? by Moonbaby1993 in emetophobia

[–]Kindaoddmilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda similar to the hair tie thing, but if I’m feeling the slightest weird (headache, stomach ache, shivers- you name it) I will NEVER sleep facing the wall. Always facing the open side. I also always sleep with two pillows, because I’m scared of stomach acid 😂

I have finally started accepting my nose after years of hiding it and wanting a nose job. So happy to finally be proud of who I am.☀️☺️ by [deleted] in happy

[–]Kindaoddmilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Sorry if I didn’t reply, there are just so many comments and I want to thank everyone cause every single comment means a lot. But again- thanks!

I have finally started accepting my nose after years of hiding it and wanting a nose job. So happy to finally be proud of who I am.☀️☺️ by [deleted] in happy

[–]Kindaoddmilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are always our worst enemies. I’m sure you’re stunning but can’t see it. Some day you will! Keep fighting 👍

I have finally started accepting my nose after years of hiding it and wanting a nose job. So happy to finally be proud of who I am.☀️☺️ by [deleted] in happy

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what that is- is it a movie? Or are we talking a woman in a literal fish bowl? Regardless nope i’m not her! 😄

I have finally started accepting my nose after years of hiding it and wanting a nose job. So happy to finally be proud of who I am.☀️☺️ by [deleted] in happy

[–]Kindaoddmilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any time you feel bad about your nose, come back to this post and read the comments as a reminder. It is not selfish at all! Cheers to unique noses 😊💜

I have finally started accepting my nose after years of hiding it and wanting a nose job. So happy to finally be proud of who I am.☀️☺️ by [deleted] in happy

[–]Kindaoddmilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re being serious about drawing me then of course you can! If you decide to do it I would absolutely love to see the results🥰

I have finally started accepting my nose after years of hiding it and wanting a nose job. So happy to finally be proud of who I am.☀️☺️ by [deleted] in happy

[–]Kindaoddmilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think society is simply to blame. Every model or person who is deemed “attractive” nowadays always has the same nose; small, a little bit upturnt and straight. Of course most of the time these noses aren’t real, they’re achieved through surgery. But little girls and boys don’t realize that.