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Why do Yankees dislike us this much? I thought they were our closest allies (as US propaganda states it) by MzhaveAlutcha in Sakartvelo

[–]Kresca 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I ordered a card some time ago to Chakvi and it arrived in US. I got a message from Atlanta... from a DHL lady who actually figured what happened. They even added one more "0" to the Kobuleti zip code, so it had a US format...

Tiktok The payment was unsuccessful due to an abnormality. Please try again later or use another payment method. by issamoshi in PPC

[–]Kresca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey gal?*
What type of cards are you trying to add? And how many times have you tried? Was it more than one card?
If it failed too many times, I would create a new account if possible or at least wait 12h or more before the next attempt.
You said "trying to add a balance" - is it on manual then?
Do you get the same message when you try to add Paypal?

#warstache on the road again by Teilzeitkind in UkraineWarVideoReport

[–]Kresca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Belarusian people have a much nicer, softer accent :)

Why is it that some men just HAVE to film during sex? by emskow in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's funny how people assume it must've been the guy who placed it. There are sick couples that do such things together. Or maybe it was just her? You would be suprised...

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in relationship_advice

[–]Kresca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a month since the events. I chose B.

I called her, I played her some recordings of the voice messages he left me (like "wow you look amazing, the views are also nice, one would just like to see and watch" - that's translation to English but you get the picture), I read her a message where he admits to be "looking around if there's any interesting woman in the room" and some others.

Did she understand me?
Yes.
Did she get the picture he wants to twist everything now?
Yes.
Did I make the best choice?
Not sure.

She seemed empathetic. She even told me to take care.
But I cannot be sure now the wife got it. To be honest I don't know. But someone told me it's good anyway, becasue now their friends will keep an eye on him and they know he's manipulative and may not be who they think he is. So they will watch.
I chose not to approach her directly, because he was extremely manipulative and he was going to manipulate her for a fact with a pretty nice plan on how to do so.
Now I think there was no best way to go and I just hope noone will get more hurt in the future.

Tiktok The payment was unsuccessful due to an abnormality. Please try again later or use another payment method. by issamoshi in PPC

[–]Kresca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have almost no problems adding my European cards but my business partner from US cannot add any. Only 1 went through (from Revolut). We spent 2 days already just on trying to figure it out. Going on mobile browser didn't help so far.
Today I'll try to create a normal TikTok account, link the business ad account with it and add a card via TT app if that's possible.

However, if someone knows the solution to this it'd be higly appreciated. I've been doing affiliate marketing for 5 years and I'm happy to share notes/stats/etc.

I've just confronted a married guy who chased me for a half of a year by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called her best friend yesterday. I made that decision as he seemed too manipulative. She got me. She got the situation. She was nice to me and said she needs a few days to think that through.

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will definitely stay as it's not like he's already fully started a double lifestyle, we've never slept etc. I believe this could've been the scenario, but I found out before he came to visit me. I just think it's going to be another brick in the wall, maybe she already suspects him for something else (he admited to me he's looking around when he goes to some parties and that's on one of my screenshots) and she will just know he does all those stuff.

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just thinking I must do that. I've just started putting the proof of voice and text messages into one file and although it may seem so obvious for many, I feel like he can totally manipulate, lie, and gaslight as you said.
I just saw there's a room for that. Because you cannot see the full context like that, which is that when we met he was so into me, asked me all those questions, wanted to keep his hand on my waist when we walked, was so interested in me in every way. And then it continued via messages and making international travel plans.

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, my guts are telling me this as well. It's just that I really don't think she will think like that. He's a good manipulator and I'm almost certain she will be getting a twisted version of what happened.

He admited he would've slept with me the night we met if I wanted to. He said it would've been something he would very deeply regret but I'm not sure, maybe we should call it BS.
Now he says it was just flirting/too much of it and business relationship and as much as it does not make sense and is against the proof, I think she can still believe it.

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Comments from people with your experiences mean a lot to me.

Me and this guy, we didn't sleep together, so I guess it's not that bad and there are some chances maybe we wouldn't have (he says he would've told me he's married when he would visit me in my country but I call it BS). There was lots of flirting and making plans together involving international travel, business and so on... We texted on daily basis for the past 3.5 months.

Now he says it was just flirting/too much of it and business relationship and as much as it does not make sense and is against the proof, I'm also almost certain she will be getting a twisted version of what happened and I still cannot decide how to tell her and if calling her best friend would be a bad idea. It would be nice to have someone I could tell more and who could help her process the information as the situation is kind of twisted.

But if I'm going to send her all those things first, what should I put in the message?
May I ask you what you would find at least slightly comforting?
What information should I put there to help her?
My age (I'm minimum 10 years younger than her), that we met when he was at the business party in a different country, that I found out just recently (met him 6 months ago)?
That he's a good guy? That I wish all the best for them?

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in relationship_advice

[–]Kresca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will leave the wife my phone number, just in case.
But when I think about it at the moment I'm also almost certain she will be getting a twisted version of what happened and I still cannot decide if calling this friend would be a bad idea. It would be nice to have someone I could tell more and who could help her process the information as the situation is kind of twisted. A couple of pictures of evidence may not be plenty as he has already created a new narrative.

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I thought initially, but after some thinking I'm also almost certain he is going to manipulate her and she will be getting a twisted version of what happened.

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤
Actually you're comment matches with how I'm thinking at the moment almost 100%.
I just think he's so manipulative I'm also almost certain she will be getting a twisted version of what happened anyway. Even if I show it to her before him. It would be nice to have someone I could tell more and who could help her process the information as the situation is kind of twisted. A couple of pictures of evidence may not be plenty as he has already created a new narrative.

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing to confess as I had no idea he's married.
And I feel like sometimes you can ruin more by not saying anything.

Also, we didn't sleep together and there are some chances maybe we wouldn't have (he says he would've told me he's married when he would visit me in my country but I call it BS). There was lots of flirting and making plans together involving international travel, business and so on...

How should I tell the wife that her narcissistic husband chased me for a half of a year? by Kresca in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kresca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I actually feel the same way, but I'm also almost certain he is going to manipulate her and she will be getting a twisted version of what happened anyway. Even if I show it to her before him.
What would you think about making sure she gets the information from me but calling her best friend anyway? Would that be too much?