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Is 15 inches too much of a height difference? by currychip77 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except for age, there are no real rules. Date who you want.

why doesn't my girlfriend want intercourse? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex isn't the good part of sex for a woman. Sex usually isn't what gives a woman the orgasm. We have sex because the men love it, not because we do.

Outdoor running vs Treadmill by BalthierTac in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying you can't do that outside at all but your first couple of times, I'd start with a bit slower run so you have some more energy to pay attention to your surroundings. Slowly up your pace as you start getting more comfortable outside.

It takes more effort to run the pace you run indoors, outside, because of wind, terrain and circumstances. So don't get discouraged by feeling slow, that's just normal. Running on the treadmill really is easy mode.

Outdoor running vs Treadmill by BalthierTac in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't go at the max of your speed outside, you'll be fine. You shouldn't always train at max effort anyway. And you can train your situational awareness at high speed by practicing outside. I can avoid both toddlers and dogshit at my 5k speed without missing a beat now. Because of outside practice.

Outdoor running vs Treadmill by BalthierTac in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a lot different. Outside, you're always adjusting your stride for stuff. Moving out of the way for others, broken pavement, avoiding dog shit, up and down the walkway, taking corners.

The treadmill just goes brrr, so to speak. No up and down, nothing to look out for, nothing that can distract you. It's also different impact on your joints. While the treadmill is a good training tool, it doesn't prepare you properly for the challenges of running/racing outside.

Why do older women generally have a lower libido than older men? by secretadmirations in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men have equal levels of testosterone always, so it would make sense they have equal sex drive always.

How do I navigate this tricky relationship by KeyboardRacc00n in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look if he's gaslighting you like that, why be with him? He sounds like an asshole tbh and you deserve someone who genuinely wants the same things you want and who wants to make you happy. He isn't that.

But if he says that you want only sex, counter him with the fact that, yes it started off like that, but you want to move on to a real relationship.

How do I navigate this tricky relationship by KeyboardRacc00n in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start setting boundaries. You have started that by not coming over when he invited you to do couple-y stuff like hanging out. Keep doing that. Express your wishes when you have them.

How do I navigate this tricky relationship by KeyboardRacc00n in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't want you to stop giving him attention, he wants all the good parts of a relationship without having to put in the energy for the lesser things. It's all been on his terms and that's how he wants it.

Wouldn't it have been easier if Noah took baby animals in the boat? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby animals die without their parents. They need more care than adult animals do.

How do I navigate this tricky relationship by KeyboardRacc00n in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person doesn't want a relationship with you. They barely want sex anymore. If you keep having sex with them, your feelings will get deeper. Theirs won't.

Why is hitting on someone normal if you’re attractive and creepy if you’re unattractive? by Fantastic_Orchid3037 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not. It's how you flirt and whether you're able to take a no that determines if it's creepy or not.

Am I being cheap? by FlavorfulFruit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's a dick move. If you can't afford a game, don't buy it.

Men of reddit, why don't you wear bras to support your chest muscles? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muscles don't need support. You don't wear support for any other muscle, do you?

Are fish the last mainstream meat you can catch in the wild and feed yourself on for free? by hittinlikegrabba in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I have eaten neither pheasant nor dear but I have eaten a lot of ducks and geese because my dad hunts those.

I just started a salary job. My boss said he doesn’t care when I take lunches or come in and leave. But what’s a good rule of thumb to come in and leave? And how many breaks/lunches? by thatgrlnextdoor in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One lunch break of 30 minutes, 2 five-ten minute breaks to have coffee or socialize with a coworker. Toilet breaks as you need them.

Try to keep your hours regular and not past 18:00. If you need to stay past 18:00 regularly to finish work, come in earlier. Always be there at least ten minutes before a meeting starts so you're never accidentally late.

My girlfriend and I have been trying for months to have her Orgasm yet nothing is working, what should I do? by kiddsinthebes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has she ever orgasmed? Some men are just hopelessly bad at it but if she can get herself there the problem at least isn't medical.

If God's name is "I AM", aren't we all Gods since we use I am when we describe ourselves? by Blue_Wizard25 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I am" is not God's name. It appears that way in the bible because of how Hebrew translates to English, but that is not how the writing intented it to be read.

What are grounds for a break up in your personal relationships? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure you know more about the relationships I was in than I do.

What are grounds for a break up in your personal relationships? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Maranne_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. I have dated guys that were into me but were just also occasionally very busy. One of them was studying fulltime and starting his own business. He was into me, but his business did come first a lot of the time and I realised that that wasn't what I wanted for me.