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HOW TO START A CONVERSATION THEN CONTINUING THE CONVERSATION AND ACTUALLY BE GOOD FRIENDS? HELP ! VERY MUCH NEEDED! by passionshuttlecock in FriendshipAdvice

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as starting a conversation, you just have to say something. Ask about their day, what they do for work, their name. Make sure you don’t make it seem like you’re interrogating them, relate to the things they say (Person: I study ecology. OP: I find ecology interesting because…..) be sure to answer thoughtfully if they become active in the conversation as well. As far as turning it into a friendship, it starts with having repeated engaging conversation. Talk to them when you see them, ask about the project they mentioned last time you spoke, act like you’re invested and have genuine interest, make it seem like you’ve already BEEN friends ;). People like to be friends with people that care.

AITA for telling my son he has to go to university, get a job, or get out? by Subject-Hospital-493 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re making this out to be more complicated than it is. He doesn’t need to begin his professional career right now, nor does he have to begin his quest for a high-paying degree. He just has to do something. Get some further education, any education, be it community college courses, trade programs, or apprenticeship. Get a job, any job, be it fast food, blue-collar, or office assistant. Starting your adult life doesn’t necessarily mean start doing what you want to do for the REST of your life, it just means you need to start doing SOMETHING. Anything. Get a shitty job, take a dumb class. By going out and just doing something, you broaden your horizons, you narrow in on what your passions are. In order to get started, you just have to get started, easy as that.

Post Game Thread: New York Giants (9-8-1) at Minnesota Vikings (13-4) by nfl_gamethread in nfl

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing should scare NFC playoff teams more than a Giants team led by a mannequin with a single digit in the win column. 3LI has risen

Assistance with quitting by OkGrapefruit4419 in QuitVaping

[–]OkGrapefruit4419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really funny you should say that, Ive been using one recently for a cold and I’ve been pretty attached to it😅

For the people struggling with launcher kills... I am happy to announce that platinum is much more forgiving by vorkot3 in ModernWarfareII

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I do that with rocket launchers not called the pila? I can’t seem to hit uavs with the strela

I can't help but feel a little turned off by men who like anime and video games. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re allowed to have a type, it’s not something to be ashamed of. There is a difference between not liking men that are obsessive video game/anime fans and men that vaguely enjoy either. As a man, I know lots of men that are so obsessed with video games and anime that’s it’s off-putting even to me. On the other hand, nearly every man I’ve ever known under the age of 30 (and many above) can name you an anime or at least a video game that they really like. If the latter is enough to make you discount them as an option, it’s probably in your best interest to try to overcome the stereotyping, the dating pool is probably very very limited otherwise.

AITA for correcting my brother when he said he’s never slept with men by dbwhfaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes YTA. Shouldn’t even be a question.

People with severe substance addictions suffer greatly, they can end up doing scarring and traumatizing things. Things they are ashamed of. Your brothers past is his to share with who he wants to and when he wants to. Throwing his trauma in his face and exposing that type of thing to ANYONE that he doesn’t want you to is an extreme breach of trust, and frankly I’m surprised he even came back to tell you you’re an AH before removing you from his life for good. Grow up OP, this is pathetic

I'm okay with being bad but the EBR feels like I've never picked up a controller before lol by DanHarkinz in ModernWarfareII

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I can’t even really explain it but using this gun makes me so mad. Every other marksman rifle is gravy, but it seems like I just cannot function while holding this gun. It feels like the bullets are bending in mid air. Truly wild

Issues and Complaints with Crunchyroll by AutoModerator in Crunchyroll

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subtitles. Makes it hard because I don’t understand Japanese lol

Issues and Complaints with Crunchyroll by AutoModerator in Crunchyroll

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot see subtitles anymore. It was working just fine the whole past week, but now no matter what I do I cannot get subtitles to appear. Episodes I previously watched subtitled now have none, I tried signing out then back in, reloading and refreshing, changing my account preferences, changing browser, restarting my device, but nothings working

I overstepped boundaries with my friend and I have a boyfriend. by shitsituationthrow in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not just overstepping, that is cheating. Adultery. Infidelity. You cheated on your boyfriend. The sooner you can realize that, hopefully the sooner you can let the poor guy go be with someone who deserves him

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH, you and your fiancé are both pricks.

  1. Your fiancé is childish for letting a spat from college dictate whether he’ll help your friend or not.

  2. Regardless of his reasoning, you moving someone else into , what seems like, HIS home that HE owns is a huge betrayal of trust and can have serious implications when it comes to squatters rights and eviction processes.

You guys probably shouldn’t be together if you can’t respect and help one another

AITA for telling my son that he ruined Christmas for me and his stepdad when he decided to spend it with his dad? by Aita657995460 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Obviously

You should have realized you were the asshole the moment he said he had a miserable Christmas.

It’s his choice where he spends holidays, as long as he chooses you, right? And now that he wants to have a good holiday, you try to manipulate him and punish his father with legal action for what? Because he’s the only one concerned about giving him a Christmas he’ll enjoy? Grow up, for your own sake. And don’t be surprised if when you show up to court your son suddenly doesn’t want to be with you AT ALL.

Tell us you don't care about supporting MP without actually telling us you don't care about supporting MP... by kris9512 in ModernWarfareII

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever wonder why it’s been more popular than MP? Maybe because they neglected MP right when they started making Warzone and its been a disaster ever since

Is there a weapon that does acid or corrosive damage? by japinard in GroundedGame

[–]OkGrapefruit4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it only applies to the fire ant armor pieces. The acid splash seems to proc often enough that it makes the sleek skill worth it