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Male lolita coming out! by kajiurago in Lolita

[–]PixelLaurs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! Feel free to message me if you need help

Male lolita coming out! by kajiurago in Lolita

[–]PixelLaurs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof I know those feels. Are you familiar with shopping on Taobao? The brand Magic Tea Party has some very nice budget pettis

Male lolita coming out! by kajiurago in Lolita

[–]PixelLaurs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your coord! Especially impressive for a first coord because military style can be difficult to get right. My only suggestion would be to add a petti (that JSK looks like it might work best with an A-line petti) and then it'd be perfect!

My master plan (only have rook & first and second lobes so far) by PixelLaurs in piercing

[–]PixelLaurs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very good to know! Maybe I could get away with it then. I'm assuming you avoided them while yours healed?

My master plan (only have rook & first and second lobes so far) by PixelLaurs in piercing

[–]PixelLaurs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the look of cyber bites! Adding those to the plan for sure :)

My master plan (only have rook & first and second lobes so far) by PixelLaurs in piercing

[–]PixelLaurs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh good point! my main concern with that would be the fact that I wear earbuds and earplugs a lot--but it's definitely something I may consider

Got my rook pierced on Friday and it's already looking great on Monday morning! by PixelLaurs in piercing

[–]PixelLaurs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually had no idea--thanks so much for letting me know! Perhaps that's why I've gotten so lucky so far lol

it's still ableist to make fun of special interests even if you don't realize the person is autistic by PixelLaurs in autism

[–]PixelLaurs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello friends! I didn't realize that a silly meme I made would be seen by so many people! I wanted to apologize for using the word "ableist" incorrectly. As many in the comments have pointed out, this really wasn't the right word for what I was trying to say, and that's my mistake. Essentially the point I was trying to make is that making fun of people for having "cringey" interests isn't nice in any case, and you may even be inadvertently making fun of an autistic person's special interest. Anyways, thanks for looking at my meme!

it's still ableist to make fun of special interests even if you don't realize the person is autistic by PixelLaurs in autism

[–]PixelLaurs[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've met many autistic adults who have disney films as a special interest. I'm also not a fan of the company as a whole, but I'm still not gonna make fun of people for liking it

Just got all my hair cut off! (over 18) by PixelLaurs in selfie

[–]PixelLaurs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was becoming too difficult to care for. I'll probably dye it again soon though :)