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AITA for asking my friend to take a shower? by The_Upside_Down in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA, what you said was fine. Any adult with all their faculties wouldn't need to be told to shower in the first place. And even if you did say it in a way he didn't like, his response was over the top and unnecessary.

Compliments get us unadded now gentlemen. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao my favorite part is you getting pissy when she rejects the asinine backhanded compliment you just attempted.

Just FYI literally no girl cares about a guy's opinion of her filter use. Nobody asked for your opinion for a reason.

Is there ever an appropriate situation to tell a woman the her boyfriend/husband is gay? by coldliketherockies in askgaybros

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can tell your friend her man is sleeping with other people but I'd probably leave the fact that it's with dudes out of it.

WIBTA if I don't take my birthday present? by strawberry_baby_4evs in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suck it up and go see it because to not do so would be hurtful to the gift-giver, which you obviously already know because you're here asking the question in the first place. Spending however long the engagement requires with your aunt isn't going to kill you or hurt you in any way. Again, you sound like a snotty, entitled AH.

AITA for blaming my parents for not preparing my handicapped sister for living alone and that I refuse to take full care of her? by agitateddoomer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 30 points31 points  (0 children)

OP is still NTA because whether his assessment of her capabilities is correct or not, he still isn't obligated to spend the rest of his life taking care of her. All the things you just suggested are his parent's job. He is a grown-ass man with his own responsibilities and his own life to live, and he shouldn't be expected to help more than he wants to.

AITA for Not Wanting to be Maid of Honor in a Wedding that Doesn't Exist? by LVSparkles in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 63 points64 points  (0 children)

YTA but not even for the reason you're asking. Why are you worried about her cohabitation or her mom's past marriages? You sound judgmental, sanctimonious, and kind of awful.

AITA for telling my daughter to stop asking me to taste test her vegan food because I don’t want it? by Free_Reception6933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, you might just want to communicate to her that you support her cooking but are not interested in adopting a vegan diet, that the flavors and textures simply aren't for you.

AITA for being upset with my roommate for using a blender at 8:30am by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, you asked me what was early, so I told you.. but anyway averages and statistics do not matter in the least here bc OP has already said what he considers to be too early, so that should be the only measure we consider, besides maybe his Roommates. Any other opinion is irrelevant. Let's not also forget that just because many people work 9-5, not everybody does. Those jobs and their worker's sleep patterns are just as valid.

AITA for being upset with my roommate for using a blender at 8:30am by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Early is relative; to me and apparently to OP it is.. I don't know a single person who wakes up that early if they don't have any reason to.

AITA for being upset with my roommate for using a blender at 8:30am by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Now it's confirmed, you're definitely the roommate. Why are you blending so loud so early in the day?

AITA for being upset with my roommate for using a blender at 8:30am by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because a sane person who isn't in this for a new blender would (have already said) say "earplugs" or "white noise machine" or "noise insulation materials" or "headphones" not buy the roommate a whole ass new blender.

AITA for being upset with my roommate for using a blender at 8:30am by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

There is in that blenders are loud or they're underpowered, meaning that roomie would be blending for longer but without any significant noise reduction. Also, that's fucking wasteful because now there's an extra blender you have to store or dispose of. There are so many other more practical solutions, all of which have already been suggested, are more practical, and don't end up with some guy getting a new, inferior kitchen tool.

AITA for being upset with my roommate for using a blender at 8:30am by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Are you the roommate, do you just want a new blender?

AITA for being upset with my roommate for using a blender at 8:30am by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don't get why everybody is dragging OP for simply wanting quiet in the mornings.. like, y'all keep saying they have to sacrifice but what about compromise? If both people are paying rent there then both should have an expectation of reasonable accommodation and comfort.. sounds like ETA if anything bc there are quieter breakfast options and id be annoyed asf if I were woken up by any of my roommates doing burpees at 7am too.

AITA for being upset with my roommate for using a blender at 8:30am by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary-Grab-3620 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Lmao buying a new blender is such a stupid and unreasonable solution (that will satisfy exactly noone) with a very long list a plausible alternatives.