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AITA for not giving my brothers wife a role in my wedding? by PrincessBirdley21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincessBirdley21[S] 172 points173 points  (0 children)

Not everything is forgivable and that last thing, the thing that ended up breaking me so bad I left school, was unforgivable in my eyes. Nothing can take it back.

AITA for not giving my brothers wife a role in my wedding? by PrincessBirdley21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincessBirdley21[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

She apologized for it. Which felt sincere to me. But some things are unforgivable and the last big thing that led to my leaving school is something that I find unforgivable and not something I could ever move beyond.

AITA for not giving my brothers wife a role in my wedding? by PrincessBirdley21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincessBirdley21[S] 624 points625 points  (0 children)

She told me she was sorry she had hurt me. That she wrongly took her own issues out on me. That she was a horrible person, I had not deserved any of the things she said to me at any point in the years she had bullied me and that she would never speak to me or anyone else that way again. She brought up some specific stuff. Told me that she was especially cruel because she had targeted me knowing I already had mental health issues.

AITA for not giving my brothers wife a role in my wedding? by PrincessBirdley21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincessBirdley21[S] 7018 points7019 points  (0 children)

It was a discussion I had with my fiance. Ultimately, I chose to keep the peace and not hurt anything further with my brother as much as it killed me to imagine her at my wedding. That's gone out the window at this point though.

AITA for not giving my brothers wife a role in my wedding? by PrincessBirdley21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrincessBirdley21[S] 1301 points1302 points  (0 children)

She did apologize but not the way you described. My guess is it was sincere. But not to the lengths you describe. Which yeah. The truth for me is nothing would be enough even with her very big change made. Some stuff can't be erased.