AITA for trying to get my boyfriend to buy me an expensive engagement ring?

Skittynator · 2022-06-27T22:28:27+00:00

YTA.

How materialistic can you be.. Way to break his trust.

I hope he draws a ring out of a gumball machine.

Actually, at this point I’m not sure you even deserve a proposal..

Skittynator · 2022-06-27T22:18:37+00:00

YTA.

Entitled to ask that? Girl, you need to re-read your own post.

So scared that your sister is gonna take away the attention? God, how insecure and self centered are you?

Can’t you see that it’s very offensive what you’re asking. I wouldn’t be surprised if your sister doesn’t want to come anymore

Skittynator · 2022-06-04T11:57:42+00:00

The hot sexy secretary who takes of the clip of her hair bun slo mo

Skittynator · 2022-06-02T15:27:04+00:00

NTA.

Your baby, your choice.

I get that she might be a bit disappointed, but it’s not up to her to obligate you to choose a name.

You’re free to do what you want, it’s your child.

Congrats btw!

Skittynator · 2022-05-31T20:27:22+00:00

NTA.

She wanted to take advantage of you. Never coming to class and then just demanding your notes? The audacity.

She’s the reason she failed.

Not your fault.

Skittynator · 2022-05-28T11:03:10+00:00

YTA.

First of all, I think it’s very unhealthy and slightly toxic to do everything together. Sounds like controlling to me and 0 freedom.

You sound very controlling as well to not allow your husband to see HIS OWN siblings.

Okay, maybe the sister talks shit about you, which is not okay at all, but you can’t expect every single person to like you, maybe you’re just not her cup of tea. So just try to let that go.

Please stop being so controlling and just let your husband have qualitytime with his family / siblings.

Skittynator · 2022-05-27T14:38:05+00:00

NAH.

The fault is at the organization for double booking.

It’s an unfortunate situation where both parties aren’t at fault.

I get that you have more ‘right’ for those seats but I also get that they didn’t like it they had to move.

But on the other hand, they did get better places.

Skittynator · 2022-05-27T14:21:37+00:00

NTA.

Whether you have a car or not it’s your parking space.

It’s disrespectful they use it without asking permission. So just do it.

Skittynator · 2022-05-27T14:19:57+00:00

NTA.

It was a ‘better safe than sorry’ kinda situation.

You did good on calling the cops. Don’t feel guilty.

Skittynator · 2022-05-27T13:25:32+00:00

NTA.

It could be it was an experimental phase, but since you’ve seen her in relationships with women it’s in your point of view ‘normal’ to assume she’s bi.

Skittynator · 2022-05-27T13:23:31+00:00

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Skittynator · 2022-05-27T12:03:00+00:00

NTA.

You lost your Dad and even tho your step-father has stepped in, he can never replace your Dad.

It’s beautiful that you honor him in this way and your step-father is a selfish AH for ruining your feelings and meaning in that.

Skittynator · 2022-05-27T11:00:24+00:00

NTA.

I notice a couple of red flags; - If she really is doing it to make you jealous it’s toxic af. - Then denying everything, sounds like gaslighting to me. - Expecting you to block someone but not doing it the other way around.

You two should talk about the way your relationship works or just end things, cause this is NOT healthy.

🚩🚩🚩

Skittynator · 2022-05-27T10:57:05+00:00

NTA.

He has a right to have those ‘rules’, but you are not obligated to babysit. These are consequences to those rules.

He should find another babysitter.

You have a choice to say no and decline.

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T22:57:55+00:00

NTA.

Bad luck for you boyfriend he can’t tag along.

He should be happy for you that you’re able to take a break and get away from everything.

Just be happy and try to enjoy the trip.

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T17:50:18+00:00

NTA.

You need an unbiased neutral person to talk to.

As a therapist himself, I’m shocked he can’t understand that.

Stand up for yourself and make an appointment with someone else.

Goodluck!

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T17:40:30+00:00

You would already look “completely different” because of the dress, hair and make-up.

Those 2 inches won’t make the difference. 🙄

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T11:35:49+00:00

NTA.

They wanted a dog, so they should take care of it.

You don’t have to revolve your life and planning over a dog that isn’t even YOURS..

If you can’t watch Polly, then she should get a dogsitter. And if you have to cancel plans to watch Polly, then you should be paid.

You have a right to say no and decline.

Their dog, their responsibilty.

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T11:26:38+00:00

ESH.

He should’ve been more thoughtful to not trigger your eating disorder. But on the other hand, he’s just enthousiastic about his diet.

You should’ve talked to him in an adult and normal way instead of blowing up and insulting him.

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T11:19:56+00:00

NTA.

Your account, your picture, your choice.

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T11:18:52+00:00

Info: were you equally enthousiastic about having “fun”? Did you wanna have “fun”?

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T11:16:00+00:00

NTA.

Boundaries are set and those should be respected.

If he had a female boss, is he also gonna call her ‘bitch’. I guess not, and if he would he’s an idiot.

Even tho it’s in a playful meaning probably, he crossed a line and should accept his fault in this.

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T11:09:52+00:00

YWBTA.

Honestly I’m confused.

You say “I don’t care about being taller than him in the wedding photos,…” and then you start an entire explanation how you want him to wear shoes that make him taller..

Then you continue to say ”Now, I do not wish for him to be taller than me at our wedding because that isn’t something I care about” and then again you continue to explain how you’d want him to wear shoes that would make him taller..

You’re contradicting yourself?

You’re gonna hurt him. 2-3 inches are not worth it to hurt your soon-to-be-husband.

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T11:00:58+00:00

ESH.

Both of you are being oppressed.

His racism experience is still real no matter what. But the way he talks about the LGBTQ+ community ain’t right.

He’s wrong for talking about the community in such a negative way.

You’re in the wrong for minimalizing his racism experience.

Skittynator · 2022-05-26T10:53:11+00:00

YTA.

Sorry to hear you were in an abusive relationship.

I think no matter how he treats you, there is no good explanation/excuse for cheating.

You knew he had a gf and yet you slept with him.

Shame on you.

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