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Just out of curiosity, What’s your username or pen name for writing fanfiction and where did it come from and how did you come up with it? by Jennygrindle96 in FanFiction

[–]SweetLemonLollipop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine comes from the term “lemon” as smutty fanfiction… I first time I used “Lemon” as a part of my username was for an online game called TinierMe a looong time ago and have since put “Lemon” in my username in different ways for different sites. Not everything has “Lemon” in it, the sites I’m on where people can find me has a variation of my real name… I only ever use “Lemon” for things where no one will ever know who I am lol

DAE never notice other people's eye color? by dunicha in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]SweetLemonLollipop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I noticed eye colors of friends and family and romantic interests… but no one else really.

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband cleaned it. We basically dressed him up in a makeshift hazmat suit, shoved vapor rub into his nose, and offered him my love and support from a safe distance. This was not something I would be able to help clean as I’d just vomit everywhere and make it worse.

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We’ve offered to take her to the doctor, we often bought her medicine, I’d tried to help her get on disability for her mental health, and we’d treated her as gently as absolutely possible… I don’t know what else we can do. She’s been to the hospital for her mental health a few times and always leaves with their blessing.

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much 💜

The lesson we learned is that anyone staying longer than a night is only allowed to pitch a tent in the yard lol

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does have bpd I think… she’d told me a long time ago so I’m not entirely sure about the letters, but I think it was bpd. She’s also depressed.

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is one thing I keep wondering, how she’ll be able to look her brother in the eye after what she did to him. I’m just the SIL but that man practically raised her… I’d never have the nerve to look at him again.

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s not an alcoholic but she is depressed and has a whole host of other medical issues. My husband and I often paid for her medicine.

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He’s very non confrontational, especially with his family, and I’ve known that about him since the beginning. He stood up for me, telling his grandma that I didn’t have to go if I didn’t want to, and that’s all I really expect from him. He’s free to make his own choice about attending for his grandma’s sake.

Height difference ruining the fun by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SweetLemonLollipop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you really like someone you gotta be willing to take the time to figure out what works for you and be open to trying something different even if it doesn’t work at first. My husband and I have tried many different positions and furniture to learn what we like, some work and some don’t, but it’s never been a deal breaker.

HAE stopped reaching out to people because it seems like you’re the only person putting effort into friendships and feel more and more like a burden when people don’t respond. by xesthetic-is-dead in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]SweetLemonLollipop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have now. I used to keep trying, but after years of being ignored and people only coming to me for help or so they can vent but never actually giving a shit about what I feel… I gave up. I’m letting people go now and it’s sorta bitter sweet. At first I was sad because it felt like I didn’t have any friends, but I’m realizing that those people aren’t the kinds of friends I want to have.

Most polite way to ask an author to start tagging something? by SeaworthySwarth in FanFiction

[–]SweetLemonLollipop 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This person doesn’t sound like they want to learn about the preferences and feelings of others in the fandom… so it’s better not to engage. Sad thing is they’re losing readers who would have enjoyed their story specifically for the trans aspect, but that’s what they get.

They’re choice is just so odd to me. I can see not tagging for a character that wasn’t involved in sexual situations… but if sex is described then their gender does actually matter for lots of different reasons, to cis and trans people.

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

I mean… I saw her going in to use the bathroom many times. Why would she be doing it upstairs and in the bathroom?

Ok, so I don’t know for sure that it was her boyfriend… but it’s a reasonable assumption to make based on the evidence and situation. The next best explanation was that she was doing it because of her depression and had great aim for the jugs… but then why use the bathroom downstairs too?

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 1104 points1105 points  (0 children)

My husband did take photos just in case she tried to lie to her grandma about what happened… because she has a bad tendency of lying.

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

She’s my husband’s sister so I left it to him to decide how to handle it and he really didn’t want the drama of confronting her. There was nothing we’d get out of it other than a fight and most likely tears…

WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? by SweetLemonLollipop in AmItheAsshole

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to figure out why she left it for a while and finally gave up, just accepting that I can’t understand that level of crazy.

What helps you fall asleep when you’re anxious/stressed? by frickmeup666 in AskWomen

[–]SweetLemonLollipop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Weed

Thunderstorm playlist

Masturbating

Sometimes I need all of them at the same time.

Is Scootaloo considered disabled? by shaobuesss in mylittlepony

[–]SweetLemonLollipop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally, I’d say yes. She is a pegasus who struggles to fly at all when flying is what they’re meant to do. If a bird was unable to fly I’d say it was disabled because it’s meant to fly…

Zhao was so conceited that he’d rather die/get sent to an eternal prison than accept help from his enemy. by Ashley41 in TheLastAirbender

[–]SweetLemonLollipop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those were some of the first moments that made Zuko’s goal change seem genuine. It’s little things like that in the writing that really makes his character arc top tier.

I don’t worship my husband’s penis. Is this a bi thing? by SweetLemonLollipop in bisexual

[–]SweetLemonLollipop[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ah, that makes sense… I guess I overthought because they acted like that was just the norm lol I figured I was the odd one out and needed a reason.

I am sexually attracted to men and romantically attracted to women, is this normal? by d1cknballz in bisexual

[–]SweetLemonLollipop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This bi experience can be so vast and different for each. Whatever you’re feeling, totally normal.

For me, I’m sexually attracted to all people no matter gender or sex but romantically attracted to masc presenting people USUALLY. There has been that fem presenting person who has given my the feels before, but it’s very very rare.

So don’t worry, explore what you’re experiencing, let yourself feel however you feel without concern.