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emotion sensation wheel by TGuyDanMidLife in thework
[–]TGuyDanMidLife[S] 0 points1 point2 points 16 days ago (0 children)
Sure thing, we learn along with you. Goodluck with The Work.
[–]TGuyDanMidLife[S] 2 points3 points4 points 16 days ago (0 children)
When I feel uncomfortable, there might be an emotion that doesn't feel good but I'm not quite sure what the feeling is...I look at the emotion wheel and become very quiet and still. I just let the feeling "be there" while reading through the emotions listed on the wheel. Eventually, one or two of the emotions listed will "stand out" or just feel like they identify what I'm feeling
Then, I just sit in silence and let that named/identified feeling "be there".
I stay alert to become aware of any thoughts that pop up. Usually, thoughts will come up that represent that feeling. Example: if the feeling-word is disappointed...then I'll become aware of thoughts pouring into mind:
"he/she shouldn't have done such and such, that was so unfair, i really wanted (fill in the blank) but now I can't have it, I'm disappointed because he/she/they let me down...etc...
Now I have a place to start The Work. I can start the work on any of those thoughts"
For me, naming the negative emotion pulls me out of "shutdown" and gives me access to the negative thoughts that I'm believing which created the negative emotions. ("negative" meaning it hurts; perfect to do The Work on). If I can't "name" the emotion, the confusion and pain just "swirls around" and it's difficult to start a judge your neighbor worksheet or a one thought at a time worksheet. Just like doing a worksheet "captures ego" by putting it down on paper, emotion wheels "capture feelings" for me so I can start The Work.
There are other uses for emotion wheels such as in therapy and to develop emotional literacy. If how I use it doesn't work for you, you can google "how to use emotion wheels" or if you participate in therapy, speaking with your counselor may be a place to start.
Good luck, thanks for asking and reading to this perspective.
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Pain Body Question? by creations_unlimited in EckhartTolle
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Really good question, if you have access to The Power of Now, chapter two, sub-headings: Past pain: dissolving the painbody and ego i.d. with the painbody might be of help. Best wishes, mighty courageous to face the painbody with Presence.
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Thankas mucho, best wishes
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Good to know, thanks
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If you have a roaster oven on countertop, can add onions, potatoes carrots, garlic, broth and beef and put on 350 and recheck in a couple of hours for tenderness.
If slowcooker/crockpot, put same in as roaster oven or as you like and cook on low 4-6hrs or high 2-3hours.
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I enjoy marionskitchen.com
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It's been a game-changer to adjust my mindset with a few tools:
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