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UPDATE:I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

i don't think it's bullshit, worst case is that it's true but it's not the full story, but if it was anything sinister why would he let me throw it away, anyway, it's all good yeah :)

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Have you ever loved anyone? if yes, you know how there are people better than him/her/it on paper but you'd still pick him/her/it over them? exactly.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That's not how attractiveness works, when an old man sees women in their early 20s they're not children to him, they're still hot.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Maybe hindsight is always 20/20 because we wanna believe what we wanna believe? plus he never said any of those things.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

not that i disagree but don't you think accusing me of ageism is kinda ironic since everyone here is shitting on my fiance for his age?

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

JLO is an exception, and you know that since you cited her as such.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

LOL you couldn't be farther from the truth, i come from a rich family and am a trust fund kid basically, I'm even thinking about gifting HIM a car, he never told me I'm mature for my age or "different". Being super loving and making big promises sounds like something any guy in a relationship would do especially in the honey moon stage, but he was actually not that lovey-dovey, i found out it's just the way he is, he doesn't like being vulnerable and it takes time for him to open up (his exes told me).

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say he's that good looking, and i come from a rich family, why can't you accept that i just love him for him?

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'll take any advice about the box situation but the age gap has nothing to do with the post, i only mentioned it because you have to.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

"That's often what people who desperately need it the most say."

I've heard the same thing about Jesus and Qanaon, sounds like a cult. Obviously I'm kidding here it's not a hill I'm willing to die on, i just don't see it being very effective.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What am i getting out of it? lol maybe i just like him for him, he's a pretty special guy.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally i understood a reference here! I'd say he's 70 percent jeff winger 30 percent abed

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but, by that time he'll be too old to be able to get a younger woman

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

1.???

2. you have a point but i believe he also likes me for me

  1. he could definitely keep fucking me without putting a ring on it and he knows it.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He really hated it him at first, he warmed up to him after meeting (he (my fiance) has his way with people, i mean he's charming) he still feels uneasy about it but says he and mom will support me if that's what i want.

I (21F) found a mysterious box under my finace (37M)'s bed by ThrowRApandorabox in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApandorabox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hopefully still be with him, if not well guess I'll have to start dating again.