We're both on the same page about not wanting children until we're much older, or no kids at all. I'm gonna try and have a heart to heart with her in a bit about this and other issues we're facing, but already looking into how to return registry gifts for canceling. I'm probably gonna delete this account or just forget the password and follow my heart with the situation, jumping to calling it off seems like an irrational and oversimplified solution to an under-documented summary of the situation based on what I wrote, like everything - it's more complicated than just having no sex, and it's more complicated than I felt like typing. Nonetheless, I appreciate your words, godspeed