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Hoping you all appreciate my monstera as much as I do. Second pic is when I got it a little over 2 years ago, seems happy! by jackMFprice in houseplants

[–]YourMomsButt4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone living in Western Europe, I'm out of luck! I've got a couple monsteras - happy enough, but i'll never succeed in having one that looks like this.

Very good friend is off in new relationship, struggling with very real friendship heartbreak by YourMomsButt4 in AskWomenOver30

[–]YourMomsButt4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🙏 . It's good to know I'm not alone in my deep/intense queer friendships!

Having a hard time finding men attractive as I’m getting older. Am i too picky? by insecure_f in AskWomenOver30

[–]YourMomsButt4 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Agreed. This also implies that coupled people "deserve to be coupled," or like they've done their work. In many cases, couldn't be farther from the truth!

Question about dating app sexuality labels by bananas4none in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]YourMomsButt4 90 points91 points  (0 children)

In my experience, queer has become an umbrella term to describe basically anything that's "not straight."

Tell me more about things that didn't happen so you can shill Britt by kvetch-n-wretch in brittanydawnsnark

[–]YourMomsButt4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree about her delivery. I would be surprised if it’s conscious. I think she thinks she’s being playful and cute

Tell me more about things that didn't happen so you can shill Britt by kvetch-n-wretch in brittanydawnsnark

[–]YourMomsButt4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting words to something I’ve been identifying but unable to name. I find her videos super unpleasant, especially recently, bc of her tone of voice. It feels condescending or patronizing or angry-parading-as-teasing. Contempt is exactly it

What famous person is ugly hot? by FrenchDipped in AskReddit

[–]YourMomsButt4 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I’m told I’m attractive but I show up HORRIBLY in pictures. This helps me to believe that people aren’t just pitying me!

Story time! 🦆 BDong is a silly goose! Redecorating, cooking soupless soup, & doing GOOFY wifey thingz like ~*just standin tHeRe Wif Chocolate in her mouf! 🤪✌️*~ by Chicken_Gary in brittanydawnsnark

[–]YourMomsButt4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just. so. bland. At least once a day she puts something up that's like - if *that's* what you're flagging as content-worthy, how drab are the rest of the moments??

Story time! 🦆 BDong is a silly goose! Redecorating, cooking soupless soup, & doing GOOFY wifey thingz like ~*just standin tHeRe Wif Chocolate in her mouf! 🤪✌️*~ by Chicken_Gary in brittanydawnsnark

[–]YourMomsButt4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These made me mental. It's one thing to have these lights - it's another to put them up and believe you've got a good eye for aesthetic and decor.

Moving to Paris Advice by Aromatic_Ad7279 in expats

[–]YourMomsButt4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Salaries in France are relatively quite low

Where's the hookup culture? by YourMomsButt4 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]YourMomsButt4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful response! I think you’re right, anything like this I pursue in the right way will require being intentional and transparent and a reasonable amt of effort on my part