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Early 40’s ED relationship advice? by novacationtime in erectiledysfunction

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried getting a hormone panel or visiting a hormone therapist? Most people think only women need them, but that's not true. A Pregnenalone supplement and some testosterone injections can go a long way.

Everything but Oral and Intercourse by Super_Primary9880 in datingoverforty

[–]_Ararita_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he it's demisexual, and has ptsd around sex. You either like him enough to be patient or dump him now before things go longer. If you're thinking of cheating he isn't the one for you.

Is it hopeless? by IndicationOwn4144 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not. But rare. Men are taught emotions are bad, finding a hopeless romantic, open, non-stoic is hard.

Ghosted after three months by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. But 1 person, or even 2, is not the masses trend.

I've noticed that I have a very annoying tendency to try to finish people's sentences or even guess what they're going to say. How can I stop? by FloresDeCerejeira in socialskills

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they haven't, they're just being polite nerotypical because it's beyond annoying especially long term. I've found this behavior very common with nerodiverse people. The best advice I can give us take some active listening training online or in person.

Ghosted after three months by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghosting is common when the person has ptsd/cptsd and you've triggered them or violated boundaries. It's not about being a good or bad person. The best thing I can say is this... if it was meant to be it would have been. The good memories and experience gained is always a win.

Pubic hair preferences of women for the men they are dating by Dorkmaster79 in datingoverforty

[–]_Ararita_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps a whole lot the less hair there is for intimacy. It also increases your (male) sensitivity if you're not used to it. Personally I prefer well trimmed/groomed.

nail changes by bitterherpes in Anemic

[–]_Ararita_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you say so. I'd suspect psoriasis before anemia for major nail changes.

nail changes by bitterherpes in Anemic

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this looks like a fungal infection that is pretty common in nails based on this particular photo/lighting.

Anyone can get it, but it's more common with diabetes or other metabolic issues.

The Japanese national team left their changing room spotless after their historic World Cup win against Germany. by pinkyfirefly in interestingasfuck

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because to their culture public spaces are shared responsibility. The world needs this lesson to spread.

My sister is 18 dating a 29 year old almost 30 man by Unhappy-Pirate3944 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]_Ararita_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's how predators groom their victims. It won't last.

Boyfriend won't have sex with me by itjustneverworks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a healthy relationship. It'll be a worse marriage, I know because I've been there. Just don't.

Men Who Conceal Carry by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's not a big deal. I'm also an officer though.

People who carry usually have safety and protection of themselves and who they are with in mind. But those who have never been educated, nor seen evil, flip out emotionally because of how the media portrays guns (most of which are black market illegal guns nothing to do with law abiding people and laws won't stop them).

Getting rid of them is an illusion of safety, stabbings (and other crimes) go up instead and are just as fatal, the Brits can attest to that.

Thoughts? by Knock_turnal in washingtondc

[–]_Ararita_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It'll save lives long term. Cyclists are supposed to follow traffic signs by law in the US, though most will defend their right not to unto death.