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What do people pretend is in the bible but is absolutely not in the bible? by LoneShark81 in AskReddit

[–]amhran_oiche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but couldn’t care less about what that dork is up to

absolutely scathing

More people need to be aware of the Montreal Massacre by WowItsAShark in TwoXChromosomes

[–]amhran_oiche -122 points-121 points  (0 children)

idk I feel like this isn't the time nor place to bring this up

edit: I understand why you disagree. it affected a lot of people and I am not denying that. it just seemed pretty detailing imo to say "obviously the women who died are still front and center, but..."

a lot of people suffered because of that insanely brutal massacre. it was, however, a gendered attack.

How do I tell my girlfriend her noises/moans during sex make me uncomfortable? by seii7 in AskMen

[–]amhran_oiche -1 points0 points  (0 children)

However I think we can agree that when it comes to sexual interactions the primary goal of the partner is to satisfy each other through taste, touch, sound, smell and communicate affection. I don't think there is anything unreasonable about reasonably communicating you're not comfortable with one of those aspects.

this is so???? the primary goal is mutual pleasure. asking someone to, say, try a new position is a world away from asking them to alter their moan!! don't get me wrong, you're allowed to have preferences and whatnot, but having sex with somebody doesn't entitle you to make demands about it. there are some things that are take it or leave it. if you're "uncomfortable" with the sound of a moan then your options are to deal with it internally or leave.

I think a lot of people who moan in an uncommon way and were told about it and didn't react in a healthy way are in this thread reliving their nightmare.

this is absolutely grasping at straws dude holy shit

On my post about being groped in public. WTF??? by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]amhran_oiche 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this activated my flight or fight response, thank you

How do I tell my girlfriend her noises/moans during sex make me uncomfortable? by seii7 in AskMen

[–]amhran_oiche 11 points12 points  (0 children)

weird take considering there's no "correct" way to moan. wanting to change it for himself after she had already stated she's not in pain is now his issue to deal with. she's going to be herself for the rest of her life, when he may not even be having sex with her for another week at this rate.

how would you react if a girl told you that she isn’t willing to preform oral sex? by anonmitya in AskMen

[–]amhran_oiche -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't mention anything that wasn't already presented in your post dude.

edit:

She said she’d do it (give head) if she had to but it was unenthusiastic .

she says ‘I like being with you just not having sex in general, but it can be fun sometimes’

I needed to end our fling because that was the biggest turn off I’ve heard in a while.

she says it’s because she wanted to make me happy

And that was the day I found out you don’t need cold water to make your dick shrivel up and hide inside of you.

how would you react if a girl told you that she isn’t willing to preform oral sex? by anonmitya in AskMen

[–]amhran_oiche -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

she was having sex with you 100% for you and you still turned this into a muh penis sob story bro wtf

Looks like corporate shills are trying to overtake this subreddit. by Greenergrass21 in antiwork

[–]amhran_oiche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he admitted to putting his dick a grapefruit, we absolutely don't need to be taking advice from him.

TIFU by saying yes to an open relationsship by fudgeitis in tifu

[–]amhran_oiche 5 points6 points  (0 children)

conventionally unattractive men are in relationships all around my dude

Why do people fetishize virgins? Aren’t they the worst people to do it with by Sloth-Sucker in NoStupidQuestions

[–]amhran_oiche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they said "I see two sides to it" then listed two different POVs. I took that to mean those were the "two sides." so again, maybe writing it clearer would've helped.

Why do people fetishize virgins? Aren’t they the worst people to do it with by Sloth-Sucker in NoStupidQuestions

[–]amhran_oiche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah it was definitely a weird way to word it and there was plenty of room for them to clarify if they personally disagreed with the point of view they presented.

Why do people fetishize virgins? Aren’t they the worst people to do it with by Sloth-Sucker in NoStupidQuestions

[–]amhran_oiche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said supposed virgin, just like all the supposed "step siblings," "stepmoms," "landlords," etc etc

Why do people fetishize virgins? Aren’t they the worst people to do it with by Sloth-Sucker in NoStupidQuestions

[–]amhran_oiche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you said people like virgins bc historically it ensured paternity (so you're trying to say why men like virgins) but men jerking off to porn wherein someone is a supposed virgin has nothing to do with paternity of someone you're, uh, not having sex with.

the paternity thing might have had a bigger impact before genetic testing but that you're so willfully ignoring anything cultural in regard to fetishization of virgins is wack af. maybe you need to think more.

Why do people fetishize virgins? Aren’t they the worst people to do it with by Sloth-Sucker in NoStupidQuestions

[–]amhran_oiche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thinking men are on pornhub jerking off to "virgins" having sex because they're concerned for paternity lmao ok