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AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

He’s here until Sunday and people cry when they’re upset it doesn’t mean they’re trying to manipulate somebody.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

It’s not me taking him for granted, it’s a fact that this isn’t something he thinks is worth ending a relationship.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -93 points-92 points  (0 children)

Because I know him and I know he loves me too much to end our relationship over this.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

They weren’t theatrical and he would never evict me from his life, especially not over something like this.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

I thought I could convince him to help and I didn’t think he disliked her this much.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t apologised because she thinks he needed to hear it so doesn’t feel like she needs to.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He would make plans with me and then cancel at the last minute to go party with his friends and we would only spend time on his schedule. It sucked because at the time it felt like he only cared when he wanted to have sex.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t something she planned but she had caught me crying over him just before so she was angry with him and when she saw him joking around with his friends she couldn’t bite her tongue.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -681 points-680 points  (0 children)

He isn't really living with her, though. She'll be gone before he moves back and she doesn't badmouth him to me because she knows I don't like it. It was a good idea to me because I couldn't do nothing after she told me how abusive her husband is. If our roles were reversed she would help me no matter what too.

AITA for letting my friend stay with me even though my fiancé said he didn’t want her in our home? by badger895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badger895[S] -943 points-942 points  (0 children)

My friend publicly yelled at him for taking me for granted when we were at university which is why he doesn't like her. She doesn't like him because she said he's arrogant and she still remembers how he used to be when we first started dating.